"how serious are we?" wtf! .. de-virginizing

[dipset_mafia]

OKay - - - advice? comments?

here is the situation... I just had a great weekend. I've been dating this chick, a hb9... anyway... friday night, we go out to a local bar, live music.. etc etc.. I introduced her to my friends using only her name.. not the "this is my girlfriend" line.. we've been dating for a little under a month.. and I wouldn't mind keeping her around.. anyway.. after the bar I take her home.. we're past everything except penetration.. and i get this.. "how serious are we?" me.. "what do you mean?" I choked.. then she says "I really want to sleep with you.. I've never done it before" ... my jaw dropped, i didn't put her on the V... anyway, i was liqoured up and I can't recall what i said after that.. i think it was along the lines of, "i really like you" or something like that.. but she asked for a condom.. and it was murder she wrote......

we went out again last night - she had to work early and she drank way to much and felt sick - so no play last night.. moreover, i fed her bread and water until she passed out.. which was ****ed cause i really wanted to bang her again, or atleast bring up the topic

Anyway,

Now im sitting here thinking to myself... Why is a chick going to save herself till 20.. to give it up to me... after a month of seeing me.. maybe im feeding my ego.. but this chick is HOT as hell.. i'm dumbfounded.. she undoubtably gets hit on ALL the time... how is this possible?! my game can't be the tightest she's seen... or can it..

-Was she a virgin? i dont think i should really care, but if shes lying its weird.. and if its true - its also weird... wtf!

-What the hell do you say to a naked chick on top of you that stops kissing you and says "how serious are we" .... really? this is the main inquiry..

-How can I bring this up with her again.. I'd rather just continue and go with the flow.. but a friend of mine suggested verbally solidifying the relationship, which i think is a bad idea... but I think I need to bring it up and talk to her about it somehow... the reason being - i don't think i really answered her properly on friday... haha.

 

[italostud]

Originally posted by dipset_mafia
OKay - - - advice? comments?

I introduced her to my friends using only her name.. not the "this is my girlfriend" line..

Good, keep doing this. A month is way too soon to be introducing her as your gf. If you did, it would seem like you're trying to brand her as your's and would come off as insecure.

anyway, i was liqoured up and I can't recall what i said after that.. i think it was along the lines of, "i really like you" or something like that..

K, here's a little lesson for you younger guys: Watch your alcohol consumption. Keep it to 1 or 2 drinks tops. Being drunk adds nothing to your game or personality, however it does open you up to a lot of negative things(making a fool of yourself, arrested for DUI, not being able to take advantage of good situations *cough* dipsetmafia *cough*)

we went out again last night - she had to work early and she drank way to much and felt sick - so no play last night..

Lesson number two: Do not let your woman get so drunk that she passes out. Know when to tell her "Hey, why don't you have some water for a bit so you don't get too smashed"

Anyway,

Now im sitting here thinking to myself... Why is a chick going to save herself till 20.. to give it up to me... after a month of seeing me..

She's probably feeding you some BS. But I'm not psychic, so maybe it's true. If it is true, she's probably just tired of waiting, and wants to get it over with. Maybe she just got out of a LTR with a guy she was saving herself for, who ended up cheating on her or something, whatever

maybe im feeding my ego.. but this chick is HOT as hell.. i'm dumbfounded.. she undoubtably gets hit on ALL the time... how is this possible?! my game can't be the tightest she's seen... or can it..

Probably not if you have to come here and ask us

-Was she a virgin? i dont think i should really care, but if shes lying its weird.. and if its true - its also weird... wtf!

People (read: girls) are liars, get used to it

-What the hell do you say to a naked chick on top of you that stops kissing you and says "how serious are we" .... really? this is the main inquiry..

Last minute (and half-assed, I might add) ASD. She's just looking for reassurance that you're not going to leave her. This is where you say things like "Well, to be honest with you, I've never had so much fun, or felt such a connection with anyone before, I mean, it's amazing" Then bring up some things you guys have in common. This should have been set up a while ago. When she says "I like fried liver" you say "Oh my god, I love fried liver!" See how it all ties in? Then, when she decides to ask you these stupid questions while she's laying naked on top of you, you say "Like, I've never met anyone who liked fried liver, you know?" While you're distracting her with all of this carefully planned BS, you should be using your hands to get her aroused to the point where she forgets what you two were even talking about in the first place.

-How can I bring this up with her again.. I'd rather just continue and go with the flow..

No need for you to bring it up again, she will, believe me. When she does, be prepared and remember what old italo told you

 

[dipset_mafia]

Re: Re: "how serious are we?" wtf! .. de-virginizing

Originally posted by italostud

K, here's a little lesson for you younger guys: Watch your alcohol consumption. Keep it to 1 or 2 drinks tops. Being drunk adds nothing to your game or personality, however it does open you up to a lot of negative things(making a fool of yourself, arrested for DUI, not being able to take advantage of good situations *cough* dipsetmafia *cough*)

I drink a lot.. last night (the night that she drank to much) I drank half a 26 of Jose tequila and 1/2 of a bottle of wine before heading to the bar... It really doesn't effect me supremely, I don't get very drunk and I can mask my intoxication very well.. the only problem side effect is sexual. aka whiskey d!ck.. I agree with you here... under normal circumstances, i would not consume this much booze, but it was a friend of her's birthday, and I'm comfortable drinking in her presence...

Originally posted by italostud

Last minute (and half-assed, I might add) ASD. She's just looking for reassurance that you're not going to leave her. This is where you say things like "Well, to be honest with you, I've never had so much fun, or felt such a connection with anyone before, I mean, it's amazing" Then bring up some things you guys have in common. This should have been set up a while ago. When she says "I like fried liver" you say "Oh my god, I love fried liver!" See how it all ties in? Then, when she decides to ask you these stupid questions while she's laying naked on top of you, you say "Like, I've never met anyone who liked fried liver, you know?"

I honestly couldn't see myself saying those things to a chick.. because they would be blatant lies.. i've had more fun with other chicks, like.. I don't think I could fabricate a "connection" that is deeper than any I've had before.. I would have to say something more honest - and that is why the "how serious are we" Q is a deadly one.. Like, I don't want to say, "oh, we're very serious.." and I don't want to say, "oh, this? it's a joke to me, now put your mouth back on my c0ck.." -- that's why I choked.. Personally I don't think its a fair question for a bird to ask - I know she wants to feel secure, and not worry that I'm going to dog her.. But I am expected to verbally confirm this right then and there on the spot?.. I'd much rather SHOW her my intentions than present them on a platter at her beckon.

 

[dipset_mafia]

:woo:

 

[Boner da Stoner]

About the girls that say they are virgins...

To my friends 95% of the time after we **** I get to say

"she didn't bleed"

AW's for ya, always gotta be something to make them special

 

[dipset_mafia]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner


"she didn't bleed"

she didn't bleed...

 

[dipset_mafia]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner


"she didn't bleed"

she didn't bleed...