"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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truecanadianmale

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I have been reading this board for over a month now and i thought it was time to finally register and make the post that i have had on my mind . ok im in my early 20s, a virgin, not good looking, and it all makes me feel worthless. my main point is this: i have read over almost the entire dj bible and what i got was if im a 1 then i can only get girls that are 3-5 and thats not what i want, im a shallow guy i guess because i want at least a 6-8 but what i get from the dj bible is thats not going to happen so i dont get whats so great about it, but then again i have not read every single thing that the dj bible says but did i really miss out on anything that says i can get the 6-8 ? its sort of the same thing when i read topics were a guy says that as long as your average looking you can score with chicks , yeah ok BUT what if your below average looking, then what ? just dont try and get a hooker ? i seriously need some good answers here and need to know if its possible for a guy thats a 1 like me to get the girls who are 6-8.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First some facts:
1) I'm 22 (almost 23) and still a virgin - there are others out there.
2) Never rate chicks again - never rate yourself again.
3) If you feel worthless you'll never be in a relationship. You gotta fix this first.
4) Getting a hooker will give you physical pleasure, but your issue is with your thoughts and emotions. You'd feel even more worthless paying for it.

So now someone questions:
1) What do you do for work (or are you still at school)?
2) Do you have any female friends?
3) What do you do in your spare time?
 

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I don't recall any number limiting factors in the bible. Unless of course you read Gunwitch (not part of the bible). Which is a great method for bedding girls instantly. But getting ONS isn't the only way. You just have to get your head on straight. I see tons of guys getting girls "out of their league" in the looks dept (in reality "out of your league", should also be "out of your vocabulary")

Don't worry about your looks, be well groomed don't dress like a bum, be hygenic.

Keep reading the bible. It isn't there to help you appearance wise, (you are stuck with what you're given). The bible is there to get your head on right.

Get the right attitude, develop yourself as a person and stop being a Negative Nancy, everything else should follow:cheer:
 

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Ouch, truecanadian...
Well, let me just give you a few words of comfort:
I once had a friend that could only be classified below a 2. Zits, skin on bones, unattractive facial structure, etc. He still scored, eventually. The girl he bagged was around a 7,5.

How?
He's funny. He's confident. He knows what to say, and when to say it.
It took about 15 times of getting turned down, even by 3's and 4's, but eventually he got the hang of it.
 
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