"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How reliable is a "gut feeling"?

iCatch

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for example: there are a ****load of threads with titles like does she like me? what does this mean? etc. not even gonna lie, i look for IOIs n **** sometimes. like oh she smiled maybe she likes me. oh she said hi she might like me. she hugged me, does she have a thing for me? she texted me does she like me?

but you know those times when you just have a ****in gut feeling a girl wants wants you? like you don't look for signs or anything like that. you just kinda have a really good feeling she's into you. how reliable do you guys think this is?

from my experiences, my gut feeling was always right. i never really put things together like "ok she did that and that and this and that so she likes me" i just kind of had a gut feeling that a girl liked me and i was right
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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Its an animal instinct usually only used to warn us of danger but I suppose it could also serve a predatory purpose where we can sense a chick whose a prime candidate for a mating call from us. :p
 

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If I have a strong gut feeling about something I usually follow it.
 

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Hey, intuition is very powerful. If you've got that level of confidence, then it's always worth a shot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

game.r

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Try reading Blink-the power of thinking without thinking by Malcolm Gladwell
 

Deniska

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At some point, your gut feeling will becomes common sense.
 
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