"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How red are these flags?

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The flags are cherry red enough to not continue this any further.



Bible_Belt said:
I think the online rule is that lying about your age is ok if you actually look the age you are saying you are.

You might find out a little more of her relationship history. I have known some women who have technically never been married, but lived with a guy for several years, and might as well have been.
If a woman is lying about her age, she will lie to you about anything. 37 to 45 years is a huge difference in everything about her. No 45 year old can pull off anything a 37 year old can with genetics included. Lying about age is a turn off, especially when you are getting an old hag instead of a relatively younger woman that she posed as. Do you lie about your age?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zekko said:
I still think it's funny that guys here advocate lying about your age, but if a woman does it then it's a red flag. Pick one or the other, gentlemen, don't be hypocrites.
Shyt I am in agreement (almost) with the Zek.

Why would anyone give a flying fvck about a 37-45 year old joshing about her age. She's an old hag no matter which age she is, and if fvcking old hags is your thing, then again I say who gives a shyt. You're not looking at a relationship, just a couple saggy fvcks to drain your balls on a slow day. Sick basterd, but go for it if wrinkle bags are your thing.:rockon:
 
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