"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How powerful is "IGNORING"

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Alright guys how much of a powerful tool is ignoring a woman? When is the best time to ignore her?

For ex: Take her out, spend some time, hit it then ignore her making her come to you right?

I just dont understand how powerful ignoring her is, when she could easily just dump you and move on
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ehh.. mostly depends on her interest level and the type of relationship you guys are in or the type of relationship you want..

I mean you definitely wanna stay busy with other interests other than her, but you also have to know how to balance it. I've found I do my best when I am busy with the Army, working out, doing stuff, and chillin with my other friends.. thats key IMO, just having a life outside of her. If you are staying busy you don't have to ignore her, you truthfully just don't have time to be on her ass 24/7, but she will appreciate that if shes a woman with other stuff going on, ya know?

As far as her just "leaving", it goes back to her interest level. If she's like most girls and actually likes you, then she will crave seeing you. I think its all about how you make her feel when shes with you. If you guys have good times and she likes you, than just do your thing and include her in your life.

I dunno man, everyone is gonna have different views and opinions, based on their personal experiences with girls/women.. I try to keep the games to a minimum, no need if you guys have a good thing going..

but like I said, thats based on my past relationships and trial and error.

Hope that helps..
 
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Ignoring is an extreme. Withdrawing attention is more the kind of thing you can do. It won't work unless you have demonstrated value to her, and she has attraction to you.

Ignoring her (blanking her) won't get you far and you'll come off an ass. Paying her less attention, but still being friendly when you do see her is how to play it. But if you overdo it, or let her know you're doing it deliberately, she'll just think you're a jerk and hate you.
 
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The problem with ignoring is that you can't just ease your way into it. You are either not ignoring her, or ignoring her. I find it difficult to walk a line there. And ignoring is a bad idea period. If she does/did have interest she'll think to herself (assuming you like girls who CAN think) "what the hell happened? well fine, two can play that game". And suddenly you have a problem you didn't even have to worry about.
 
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I met this Argentinian girl on the web one year ago, and after having sent some pictures of me, she seems to be very interested. She's always the one who says hello, and I'm like ignoring her a little. Then, yesterday, she said to me: "you know I love it when you are like ignoring me". So, I think it can work pretty well sometimes, to somewhat ignore an interested girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ignoring is like my basic tool, I not all that skilled in the other ones so I use ignoring, when I see some girl I like I just do the opposite of what a guy that liked her would do, if shes around I dont stay there till shes go I'll actually be first to live if shes talking to my friends I'll just actreally uninterested, while Im ignoring I just sorta proyect myself at her, with body language and all the attractive cues, this usually gets their attention and after like the firls 2 times I see her she'll be like staring at me or playing with her hair, thats like my basic all around aproach, if I get to talk to her like she asks me something I'll just play t cool, act relaxed answer or say somethign witty, whatever comes to mind and back to the ignore.

I would reccoment showing bit of interest you might want to look at her and make eye contact just so that she doesnt think that you have no interest, send the mixed signals. Works for me at least.
 
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Well i was seeing her, then we just stopped seeing eachother (been 2 weeks) but we have spoke on the phone couple times ( i called once, and she called once) I know she'll call again, and i should'nt take the call = voicemail? Yes i was hitting it
 
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Why must men and women play games? It's absolutely ridiculous. Most recently one of my guy friend's has been returning my calls and emails and we spoke weekly. Well then all the sudden he got busy taking classes and work and didn't speak to me for 3 weeks said that wasn't that long in his eyes. Yet he still encourages me to continue calling him on a regular basis....What is up with that? I told him since he was so busy I was going to stop calling and wait for him to call me. He was like no please call me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DreamyChick said:
Why must men and women play games? It's absolutely ridiculous. Most recently one of my guy friend's has been returning my calls and emails and we spoke weekly. Well then all the sudden he got busy taking classes and work and didn't speak to me for 3 weeks said that wasn't that long in his eyes. Yet he still encourages me to continue calling him on a regular basis....What is up with that? I told him since he was so busy I was going to stop calling and wait for him to call me. He was like no please call me.
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he likes you...but guess he made a mistake there! :crazy:
 
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Women tend to want what they can't have, especially beautiful women. Since they are so used to AFCs just drooling over them and putting them on pedestals, if you ignore her she will be more responsive to you.
 
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I don't ignore, but rather I try to be nonchalant. Subtle difference. In some of the duller conversations I get from women (pretty ditzy types), it's not difficult at all, LOL.
 
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DreamyChick said:
Why must men and women play games? It's absolutely ridiculous. Most recently one of my guy friend's has been returning my calls and emails and we spoke weekly. Well then all the sudden he got busy taking classes and work and didn't speak to me for 3 weeks said that wasn't that long in his eyes. Yet he still encourages me to continue calling him on a regular basis....What is up with that? I told him since he was so busy I was going to stop calling and wait for him to call me. He was like no please call me.
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Yea games are a b1tch don't ask WHY people play them because it's never going to change. The only way to respond to any game is with indifference.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women crave affection and attention. i give them some, i romance them, i show them how wonderful life with me is... then i leave, and their world is cold and gloomy. (mind you, i don't do it on purpose, i'm genuinely too busy with school work and other things in life.) then just when they are at the brink of despair, i pick up where i left off. it messes them up big time. someone who is constantly there for them loses value as time goes by. so give them the gift of missing you ever so often.
 
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