"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how or why does this happen?

OddManOut85

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and what i mean is,well not being good with women.is it lack of confidence? insecuritie? not being the alpha male? not appearing or being attractive? being weird? not being sociable/outgoing enough? not being in school? cause from 18 to like 25,are a majority of girls you meet in school? it seems like im always single.i mean,i see people together,in relationships,and its like why dont i have that? does love exist etc? its like how does it happen? ive only really dated one girl that i met online.sad? idk you tell me.and all was good till she left me.and nothing.until this one night back in april.and since then,nothing.its like how does this happen? how does one go through life like this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OddManOut85 said:
and what i mean is,well not being good with women.is it lack of confidence? insecuritie? not being the alpha male? not appearing or being attractive? being weird? not being sociable/outgoing enough? not being in school? cause from 18 to like 25,are a majority of girls you meet in school? it seems like im always single.i mean,i see people together,in relationships,and its like why dont i have that? does love exist etc? its like how does it happen? ive only really dated one girl that i met online.sad? idk you tell me.and all was good till she left me.and nothing.until this one night back in april.and since then,nothing.its like how does this happen? how does one go through life like this?
ask your self why does this happen?Answer your questions we cant answer fot YOU,you have to answer those questions.If you cant help yourself,we cant help you!
 
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