"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how or why does this happen?

OddManOut85

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and what i mean is,well not being good with women.is it lack of confidence? insecuritie? not being the alpha male? not appearing or being attractive? being weird? not being sociable/outgoing enough? not being in school? cause from 18 to like 25,are a majority of girls you meet in school? it seems like im always single.i mean,i see people together,in relationships,and its like why dont i have that? does love exist etc? its like how does it happen? ive only really dated one girl that i met online.sad? idk you tell me.and all was good till she left me.and nothing.until this one night back in april.and since then,nothing.its like how does this happen? how does one go through life like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OddManOut85 said:
and what i mean is,well not being good with women.is it lack of confidence? insecuritie? not being the alpha male? not appearing or being attractive? being weird? not being sociable/outgoing enough? not being in school? cause from 18 to like 25,are a majority of girls you meet in school? it seems like im always single.i mean,i see people together,in relationships,and its like why dont i have that? does love exist etc? its like how does it happen? ive only really dated one girl that i met online.sad? idk you tell me.and all was good till she left me.and nothing.until this one night back in april.and since then,nothing.its like how does this happen? how does one go through life like this?
ask your self why does this happen?Answer your questions we cant answer fot YOU,you have to answer those questions.If you cant help yourself,we cant help you!
 
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