"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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It has some interesting points in general in terms of masochistic addictions, but that has nothing to do with OF.
The only thing OF has to do with the video is a random recommendation from an OF content creator for the subject guy in the video to try out findom so its pure clickbait.
In fact, prior to this thread, I never heard about findom. If I now go on findom, get addicted to that, then it would be the OP's fault for posting a clickbait thread, and video where the concept is introduced. Therefore, ironically, what this OP is accusing OF of doing in this case, he's actually also doing it too by indirectly providing a recommendation to such a site as well as it's mentioned.
You are a funny guy. lol.