"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How old were you when you discovered this forum and what year and has it changed at all?

Roober

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2016 and I was... 34.

This place put me on the path that I needed about 20 years earlier. Still incredibly fortunate to find this place, and it will always hold a special place in my heart. However, the lessons stop after about 6 months, as the general knowledge on this board is quite limited in their relations to women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FlexpertHamilton

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I started doing pickup in late 2013 on my own with zero knowledge. Shortly after I became active with RSD, then RooshV a few years later - now here.

As for the manosphere/PU community in general, I've no idea what's changed, as each community is quite different. This place seems to have quite a mix of different opinion and experience levels, which I like.
 
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Zimbabwe

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2020 and i was 24, I spent some time looking for a forum that discussed Game. Before this I saw someone on Rooshv recommend this site, rooshv was all about politics and culture wars before he went on a religious crusade.

I also tried reddit but that place is an sjw echo chamber full of really bad male dating advice.
 
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I got here in 2004. I was 16.
 
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