"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How old of a club # is too old to call?

TT2CiN

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I have two #'s I got from girls in clubs last year, cuz I'm a student and I got them right as I was going for summer break and I don't live in the same place as my school. Should I call these chicks up and try for something? What should I say? One of em was high interest and she kissed me that night.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ABC

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Call them. You have nothing to lose. I'd tell them some over the top story about how not being able to stop thinking/talking about them broke up my marriage etc. which would get them laughing but if you can't pull that off just act like it's perfectly normal to wait a year to call someone after getting their number, which is pretty funny too when you think about it.
 

KneghtRyder

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dude I have a # from 5 months ago.. I think i m seriously going to call her 1 day but it will be the weirdest call she gets
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skirtChaser

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dude call her, tell her the same story you told us about school and being out of town, that's a great line. my past experience at this has been very succesful. I textd up this one chick six months after meeting her and she wanted to get together that night and I went home with her and screwed until 2 in the afternoon the next day. I asked her over coffee the next day when she relized she wanted to have sex with me?...her answer was when she got a tex from me. I agree about acting like its perfectly normal to call a girl six months later. its like playing the lottery, you call and she just could be in heat and ready for some stiff a$$ kawk, or ......maybe she is pregnant, but......if you don't play the lottery you can never win.
 
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