"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How old of a club # is too old to call?

TT2CiN

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I have two #'s I got from girls in clubs last year, cuz I'm a student and I got them right as I was going for summer break and I don't live in the same place as my school. Should I call these chicks up and try for something? What should I say? One of em was high interest and she kissed me that night.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ABC

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Call them. You have nothing to lose. I'd tell them some over the top story about how not being able to stop thinking/talking about them broke up my marriage etc. which would get them laughing but if you can't pull that off just act like it's perfectly normal to wait a year to call someone after getting their number, which is pretty funny too when you think about it.
 

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dude I have a # from 5 months ago.. I think i m seriously going to call her 1 day but it will be the weirdest call she gets
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skirtChaser

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dude call her, tell her the same story you told us about school and being out of town, that's a great line. my past experience at this has been very succesful. I textd up this one chick six months after meeting her and she wanted to get together that night and I went home with her and screwed until 2 in the afternoon the next day. I asked her over coffee the next day when she relized she wanted to have sex with me?...her answer was when she got a tex from me. I agree about acting like its perfectly normal to call a girl six months later. its like playing the lottery, you call and she just could be in heat and ready for some stiff a$$ kawk, or ......maybe she is pregnant, but......if you don't play the lottery you can never win.
 
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