I should add that this woman was heavyset yet not ugly, loved sex, and has two kids. I'm sure this one doesn't count since I was way too wasted to remember anything except brief scenes...Demon said:34 when I was 19.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.