“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How old, how long and how far.

chalk

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I know as Don Juans we are always learning and progressing, but i want to know from all the people here how old you were when you found this site and also how long it has taken you to get where you are. If you feel like going into more detail about your journey and how you've changed then go for it.

Success stories are always good to read, specially for some of the disheartend folk about! :)

Chalk
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Walden

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25 when i found this site , this site took 15 weeks to totally change my life.
 

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Excellent to know people change the way they act. Before SS, man.. I was AFC..kissing ass..acting stupid. Now I am a man. Thanks SS.
 

InLawsHateMe

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Always was a DJ, it's in a lot of us... when I was in my teens, getting babes, was never a proble... getting married f*cked me up.... it wasn't till after 12 years, a divorce, that I found this site, and it reminded me of who I was, and who I am now... I'd say it was about 2 months before things started to jar loose, and things clicked again... I went from thinking that I was going to be single for the rest of my life with no one to want me, since I was too old (30) .... I went from that too dating women younger than I, to just one hella popular guy. :) ....it's just how you feel inside, sometimes others can feel it too, and when they do, they just want to know what you are all about.
 

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keep em coming.

I'm 22 and wish i'd found this site when i was 17! I've never been a total AFC but on retrospect there was a bit of AFCness involved, and it's nice to realise it for what it was instead of thinking it's just the way it is. After 3 months I can say my outlook is SO much clearer and i feel like i've got a game plan instead of just stumbling along getting confused with the whole thing, and my confidence is rocketing every day...... and thats only 3 months. :D
 
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