How old, how long and how far.

[chalk]

I know as Don Juans we are always learning and progressing, but i want to know from all the people here how old you were when you found this site and also how long it has taken you to get where you are. If you feel like going into more detail about your journey and how you've changed then go for it.

Success stories are always good to read, specially for some of the disheartend folk about!

Chalk

 

[Walden]

25 when i found this site , this site took 15 weeks to totally change my life.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Excellent to know people change the way they act. Before SS, man.. I was AFC..kissing ass..acting stupid. Now I am a man. Thanks SS.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Always was a DJ, it's in a lot of us... when I was in my teens, getting babes, was never a proble... getting married f*cked me up.... it wasn't till after 12 years, a divorce, that I found this site, and it reminded me of who I was, and who I am now... I'd say it was about 2 months before things started to jar loose, and things clicked again... I went from thinking that I was going to be single for the rest of my life with no one to want me, since I was too old (30) .... I went from that too dating women younger than I, to just one hella popular guy. ....it's just how you feel inside, sometimes others can feel it too, and when they do, they just want to know what you are all about.

 

[chalk]

keep em coming.

I'm 22 and wish i'd found this site when i was 17! I've never been a total AFC but on retrospect there was a bit of AFCness involved, and it's nice to realise it for what it was instead of thinking it's just the way it is. After 3 months I can say my outlook is SO much clearer and i feel like i've got a game plan instead of just stumbling along getting confused with the whole thing, and my confidence is rocketing every day...... and thats only 3 months.