"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How old are you pro Don Juan's?

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I'm wondering how old you guy's are.

I'm 19 and i didn't have much experience with women yet, i'm going to get conversation king and learn how to talk with women so that reduces chances of rejection or at least become friends (intro to her own friends). You guy's would already know women love guy's that know how to talk.



Anyway the question i want to ask you'll, how did you start and what did you do to start initially to become a established dj today?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, I'm 39...but I have less experience dating women than you do!

(psst...that's because I AM a woman and I don't swing that way. Sorry...I'm overtired.)
 
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Im 28 and before you waste too much money and time on reading bs reading male and female dating is natural and have been going on long before the printed page. What you need to do is spend time in the mirror every day telling yourself the most arrogent statement about yourself you can think of. Women were put here for us not the other way around. My period of afc came when I started caring to much about them and what they wanted. It doesnt work trust me, and according to looks women say Im a 10 and i work out. But the nice guy routine got me no Azz, its a waste of time. Remember no one can read your thoughts so you thoughts should always be SC (Super confidence). In your brain you are NEO and can think whatever you decide. You can decide to think like a AFC or the most handsome smooth person on the planet-which one do you think will work better?
As a man thinks so is he-King Solomon proverbs
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
Im 28 and before you waste too much money and time on reading bs reading male and female dating is natural and have been going on long before the printed page. What you need to do is spend time in the mirror every day telling yourself the most arrogent statement about yourself you can think of. Women were put here for us not the other way around. My period of afc came when I started caring to much about them and what they wanted. It doesnt work trust me, and according to looks women say Im a 10 and i work out. But the nice guy routine got me no Azz, its a waste of time. Remember no one can read your thoughts so you thoughts should always be SC (Super confidence). In your brain you are NEO and can think whatever you decide. You can decide to think like a AFC or the most handsome smooth person on the planet-which one do you think will work better?
As a man thinks so is he-King Solomon proverbs
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Now that's some good advice right there...

You're right...the nice guy mentality is a waste of time...the times I feel super confident is when I've thought about super confident things...LoL...
 
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I'm 19.
A few months ago I was a super-AFC, hadn't even kissed a girl or anything up until then. It's been about 2 months now and I've changed completely. I wouldn't go as far as to say I'm a Pro-DJ, but I have figured out most of the basics and have put them in my heart, which helps quite a bit. Ofcourse, I still make mistakes regularly and I know I still have a lot to learn but I'm out there having fun anyway :D

There is nothing to it actually... you just have to get a certain attitude in life that frees you of all your fears towards women, which is acquired by reading a lot on here and trying a lot in real life. My personal life-saver was this post, but everybody has their own path in life. Just make sure you keep on going and never stop :)

Oh yeah, I wouldn't buy Conversation King personally - if you've already bought it you should read it but by all means, don't live by it. It's a nice self-improvement but "great" conversational skills aren't necessary to get women. Guts, attitude and persistance are.

Royal Elite, great line you have there, "As a man thinks so is he." I will definitely remember that one :cool:
 
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Royal Elite is absolutely RIGHT!

I am early thirties and have had plenty of experience, threesomes etc and I can tell you, you can go from stud to AFC without realizing it. You really can go back and forth depending on if you fall "in love" and don't check your emotions. Love can hurt just as much as it feels good. Sounds like a gay ass Bryan Adams song or something!

I am very good looking yet still managed to screw up a relationship with a very hot intelligent girl. As New Yorkers say:
"What are ya gonna do?" Live and LEARN!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by I-am-someone

Oh yeah, I wouldn't buy Conversation King personally - if you've already bought it you should read it but by all means, don't live by it. It's a nice self-improvement but "great" conversational skills aren't necessary to get women. Guts, attitude and persistance are.
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Nah, conversation king i'm going to get Wednesday when my credit card arrives.

I think is a GREAT self improvement and guide book, i will feel more confident knowing what to say on first approach, first date and so forth.

Also it gives guygirls as a bonus.

Also your right about learning and improvng yourself, i'm following the 3month rule.
 
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Ayo im 19 and ive 183 beautiful women.
 
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