"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how often you date a girl?

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how often you date a prospected LTR girl ?
ask a girl once a week? (anti-dump tips)
what if she is busy...wait another week?
ask again.

I date college girl with jobs so thats make things more complicated getting a free time with her.
also i am still in college too at the same time i have a job too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1-2 times a week, usually once.

ONce it gets more serious, a little more, but don't push it.
 
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Don't listen to anyone. I followed the once or twice rule and the girls thought while I was busy with life, they didn't treat me great.

A better question would be "what's the max you should see her" - I'd say about 3-4 days a week.

You do ask her out for one day of the week, if she wants to see you on other days. She must initiate it or hint at it - cause I don't have time to consistently setup date after date.
 
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It's not about dating, it's about sex.

Generally, dating every week doesn't make you better than anyone else, all it's doing is raising your confidence and lowering your money count.
 
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4 days a week????:crackup: if you say so
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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just see her enough so that u spend ENOUGH time togeather, but not TOO MUCH time that u will get bored.... see how things go.. some couples can see eachother 4-5 days a week and not get bored with one another, and some will see one another only 1 -2 times a week and will get bored... Its about YOU and HER and how things are with you... But the general amount of time that you should spend with your gf is about 2 - 3 times a week
 
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