"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how often you date a girl?

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BES

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how often you date a prospected LTR girl ?
ask a girl once a week? (anti-dump tips)
what if she is busy...wait another week?
ask again.

I date college girl with jobs so thats make things more complicated getting a free time with her.
also i am still in college too at the same time i have a job too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backbreaker

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1-2 times a week, usually once.

ONce it gets more serious, a little more, but don't push it.
 
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Don't listen to anyone. I followed the once or twice rule and the girls thought while I was busy with life, they didn't treat me great.

A better question would be "what's the max you should see her" - I'd say about 3-4 days a week.

You do ask her out for one day of the week, if she wants to see you on other days. She must initiate it or hint at it - cause I don't have time to consistently setup date after date.
 
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It's not about dating, it's about sex.

Generally, dating every week doesn't make you better than anyone else, all it's doing is raising your confidence and lowering your money count.
 
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4 days a week????:crackup: if you say so
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just see her enough so that u spend ENOUGH time togeather, but not TOO MUCH time that u will get bored.... see how things go.. some couples can see eachother 4-5 days a week and not get bored with one another, and some will see one another only 1 -2 times a week and will get bored... Its about YOU and HER and how things are with you... But the general amount of time that you should spend with your gf is about 2 - 3 times a week
 
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