"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How often to work out?

FBGangsta

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Alright, I used to work out like 5 days/week, and I didn't work all of my body part. Anyways, my new routine is so I only work out 3 days/week and mondays I work on legs, abs, wednesdays on back, biceps, abs, and fridays on chest, shoulders, triceps, abs.

So, what do you think about this kind of routine? How often do you guys work out? And how does that work for you? Idk if I feel that working each body part only once a week works, but I'll see.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mercenary

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I work out every other day.

I split the routines like this:
chest/triceps
biceps/delts
back
legs
I do abs and calf exercises every other workout.
When i'm cutting, I do about 30 minutes of cardio after each workout.

For me, I think the keys have been lifting heavy (gotta do squats and deads) and discipline when it comes to eating and supplementation. I laugh on the inside when I see guys on machines doing 20 reps of 100lb leg extensions.
 

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I do a 4 day split

monday = back
tues = shoulders + tris
thurs = Legs
Fri = chest + bis

I'm also trying out this alternating routine with my buddy. Basically we do 10 x 10 x 10 one week, and the next week we put on more weight and do 8 x 6 x 4 or 10 x 8 x 6. Just seein how it works.

PS: Merc, how do you do that? When I'm cutting hardcore and strictly, there's no way I'd have enough energy to do 30 mins of cardio after a workout where I lifted hard. It's kinda hard to go back and make a protein shake, let alone do cardio...
 

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Originally posted by semag

PS: Merc, how do you do that? When I'm cutting hardcore and strictly, there's no way I'd have enough energy to do 30 mins of cardio after a workout where I lifted hard. It's kinda hard to go back and make a protein shake, let alone do cardio...
I take a shaker bottle full of protein to the gym. A lot of times I can only do 20 minutes or so. Then I go play basketball for a few minutes...
 

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FBGangsta,

I combine the same muscle groups as yourself and work out the same days as you. Monday, Wednesday, Friday.

If you weren't seeing any gains working out 5 days a week you were probably over training. 5 days a week for myself is definitely way too much. My body needs more time to heal even though I supplement with glutamine and plenty of vitamin C. The length of time it takes your body to heal will vary from person to person, but you'll never know for sure what works for you unless you try it out and most importantly be consistent, you can not afford to skip a workout. Remember to focus on the compound excercises as you are only working each muscle group once a week. Work them hard. Good Luck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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[kinda off topic]
You know of any good working methods of training your back without going to the gym and expensive equipment ?
[thanks]
 

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does it matter how you grab the bar ? With palms forward or facing you ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Charisma
(palms out = palms not facing you, right ?)
Right.

Bent-over rows are also a good back excercise for over all growth
 

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ido chest biceps shoulders and lats and triceps on monday wednesday and friday. tuesday and thursday i do back legs abs and traps. this sounds like ill be overtrained but ive been doing this for a while and its been working great. ive pretty steadily gained ten pounds a month on bench.
 

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Originally posted by Mercenary
I take a shaker bottle full of protein to the gym. A lot of times I can only do 20 minutes or so. Then I go play basketball for a few minutes...
That's what we did in basketball practice in HS during off season. we would hit the weights for the first 30 mintues of class, and then scrimmage the rest of the practice. It was pretty darn hard.
 
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