"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
what is desperate is when people get carried away with it.
have you ever seen that commercial for that movie where the guy gets the chicks phone number and goes immediately to the pay phone to call her. well shes not home from being out yet, and heck he just met her an hour ago. he proceeds to leave a message to ask her out for a date or meet up. he gets cut off. what does he do? yes, he calls back.
he continues to keep calling back until there are a dozen messages.
then he feels that she is avoiding him and truth be known, she isnt home yet.
so he is still at this payphone calling her, and now he is upset thinking she is playing him and he starts leaving messages like " i dont think its going to work out "
that was a great example of being extreme or being desperate. dont do that ! haha