"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How often to call?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
what is desperate is when people get carried away with it.
have you ever seen that commercial for that movie where the guy gets the chicks phone number and goes immediately to the pay phone to call her. well shes not home from being out yet, and heck he just met her an hour ago. he proceeds to leave a message to ask her out for a date or meet up. he gets cut off. what does he do? yes, he calls back.
he continues to keep calling back until there are a dozen messages.
then he feels that she is avoiding him and truth be known, she isnt home yet.
so he is still at this payphone calling her, and now he is upset thinking she is playing him and he starts leaving messages like " i dont think its going to work out "
that was a great example of being extreme or being desperate. dont do that ! haha