"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How often should you contact your GF and see her?

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She is seeing another dude!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Plain & Simple said:
Well we have been going out for 2 weeks now yeh it aint nothing, we have never had sex or never kissed each other, she is a virgin
This thread is actually making me angry reading it!!How can you label her as your girlfriend if you havent even kissed her yet!!?? i didnt label my girl as a 'gf' until about 3 months after we were 'fu**ing'!!

its very frustrating to see some people think like this, its how a desperate person thinks, even if you are not acting desperate yet then shortly you will be if you think shes your girlfriend after txting for 2 weeks!!

Spin more plates or something in the meantime while you progress with this girl
 

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Believe it or not i dont consider her as my gf, i mean when people ask me do i have a gf, i always reply no, hell i just finish setting up a date for later on with this different chick.

Ill let yall know how it goes...
 
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