"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How often should u call ur gf/ or the girl u like ???

Latinking13

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just wondering, how often should you call a girl you like or seeing, is it ok to call everyday or everyother day or once in a while?? just asking because i dont want them to get bored of u calling.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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young_gun

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She won't get bored if you call her every day, unless you talk for hours about the same crap day in and day out. But then again, you don't have to call her every day.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BlackDragon

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my gf always calls me....every day when i don't see her so I guess you should call your gf or let her call you every day unless you see her that day or something.
 

SparkleMotion

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For me it depends how long I've been in the relationship, basically how serious it is.

I don't start calling them (and hanging out, I don't chit-chat on the phone) on a daily basis until sometime after the 10 months to 1 year mark. Otherwise I keep it to 2 - 3 day intervals. Why not everyday? Because I'm busy living my life, work, friends, hobbies, etc.
 
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