"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How often should I go on fighting classes?

powersize

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I go to the gym 3 times per week and thinking about taking K1 or Boxing lessons once per week. Do you think it possible to get any progress with going only once per week or it should be other way around? My goal is to learn how to fight and always be able to stand for myself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xplt

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K1 is great. I'm training Ving Tsun, but I'm in the progress of relocating back to my Hometown and don't have the possibility to train Ving Tsun there anymore. But there's a K1 club I want to check out, too.

To answer your question, it depends on how fast you're able to learn and if you already have experience with MA. My trainer says if you're new and you want to become efficient, 2 times per week until you have internalized the basics and movements well and then it should be enough to train once per week. If you want to fight competitive, one time per week is not enough.
 
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