How often have you ran into this type of girl?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I was talking to this chick, she tells me how she is on and off with her boyfriend not because of anything wrong with their relationship, but because of some thing about his culture and his parents not accepting it. We are all in college right now though so I was a bit curious as to why they care about their parents opinions still (maybe it's because I told mine off till they learned to respect my boundaries perhaps). I think she is 19, maybe 18 at the youngest.

Anyway, she was telling me how this guy and her want to be together (they were already together for 2 years prior), but how he said they can't because of culture thingy, but then later on they kissed and everything felt normal again, and then he said they couldn't be together blah blah blah.

That one part struck out to me though. They kissed and everything felt 'normal' again? Like just one kiss can do that ****? I don't know of many chicks anymore who place such a huge value on kissing. I thought chicks could get attached after sex maybe and all that, but these two just kissed to make the world seem right again? I can assume that she is a virgin and prolly hasn't made it to third base or maybe even second base yet, but damn. And before any of you start flaming me for listening to a girl's 'problems', go to hell. You can learn from everything.

With all that being said, have any of you ran into a girl who was this green in the romantic scene to where KISSING had such a huge emotional impact like this? And if so, how many/how often?

 

[fastlife]

Uhhh...in contemporary chick-speak 'kiss' = 'fvck.' Just euphemism. In this case, that reunion 'kiss' might've just been a kiss--but they've fvcked before that.

If I had to extrapolate, she's an alpha widow and he's her alpha--but he doesn't see anything longterm with her at this point in his life, so he constructed a plausible deniable reason why 'they can't be together,' while still keeping her on the hook for when he has dry spells or just wants some familiarity/validation.

Kissing doesn't even register on a girl's radar after the age of 11 or 12. For plenty of girls, even fvcking doesn't lead to attachment--though they might act like it to appeal to a guy's (usually beta) preconceived notions of female propriety for the purposes of manipulation. Never, ever, ever assume a girl's virginal--no matter how innocent she looks or how solid her act is--I can promise you 99% of the time a girl's kill count is far higher than what you'd project. In this case, he might be her first. But there's a good chance there has already been a handful of rebounds in an unsuccessful attempt to cope with her alpha-widowhood.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Uhhh...in contemporary chick-speak 'kiss' = 'fvck.' Just euphemism. In this case, that reunion 'kiss' might've just been a kiss--but they've fvcked before that.

If I had to extrapolate, she's an alpha widow and he's her alpha--but he doesn't see anything longterm with her at this point in his life, so he constructed a plausible deniable reason why 'they can't be together,' while still keeping her on the hook for when he has dry spells or just wants some familiarity/validation.

Kissing doesn't even register on a girl's radar after the age of 11 or 12. For plenty of girls, even fvcking doesn't lead to attachment--though they might act like it to appeal to a guy's (usually beta) preconceived notions of female propriety for the purposes of manipulation. Never, ever, ever assume a girl's virginal--no matter how innocent she looks or how solid her act is--I can promise you 99% of the time a girl's kill count is far higher than what you'd project. In this case, he might be her first. But there's a good chance there has already been a handful of rebounds in an unsuccessful attempt to cope with her alpha-widowhood.

They were like high school sweethearts or something, I dunno. But that's what I always assume too. But like you said, if even sex isn't very important to a chick, then why would kissing be? Even if they've already had sex before, I still don't think it'd be that much of an impact.