"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How often have YOU been cold approached?

rhythmic

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Between 5 and 10 times in my whole life. It's always been very wishy-washy, indirect chit-chat, from which I've had to take the lead quickly.

I admire them for doing it though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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casaanova

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I used to a get approached a LOT back in high school. This year, like twice. Most were pretty unnatractive though to be honest, I take the number but they're immediately in "break glass in case of emergency bootycall" status. Like Zarky said, they're very cooperative when you're in a dry spell
 
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