_XT_
Don Juan
I always try to see girlfriends 2-3 times a week.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How often do you see your girlfriend or FB?
- Thread starter _XT_
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
_XT_
Don Juan
Alot more views than votes.
Come on guys!
Come on guys!
sAxyguy83
Senior Don Juan
Every day when we're at school (both live on campus), more like 1/month on break (or as often as possible).
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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Once a week. The less I see her the better for us (both).
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Player_Supreme
Banned
Crazy..you have a girlfriend? And your going to different colleges?Originally posted by crazykid
I try to visit mine about 2 to 3 times a week. Going to be harder in the fall when we are at college (me = Alabama, her = Tennesse)
I would of thought you were more like Prosemont and had a team of women.
Do you plan to marry this girl? I'm really curious about long distance relationships. Do you two have a exclusitivity agreement...do you trust her...does she trust you...does she know that you moderate at a players site for teaching how to meet women?
I realize you like to stay in the dark about who you are and look like but you can email me the information. I am truely curious about how you make this thing work.
peace
MrBond007
Banned
He gives her anal sex.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I am truely curious about how you make this thing work.