How often do you have sex with your wife/gf?

[AdamJ]

I just came back from a 3 week holiday with my gf of 10 months. I have this condition where if I get too sexual aroused for extended periods then I get quite painful blue balls so I make it a policy to masturbate in the morning if my gf turns me on but I don't reach full orgasm.

I was having sex or masturbating on average twice a day for the first 2 weeks. By the last 3 days my sexual interest in my gf had dropped drastically as has my libido. I'm hoping this is not a sign of things to come especially as my gf will be moving in next month.

So is my gf not right for me if my sexual interest is declining so early in the relationship or is this just normal?

Few relevant bits of info. I've spent about 90 per cent of my time on this holiday with my gf and honestly I am really looking forward to spending some time alone. I also haven't been to the gym in 3 weeks either. Normally I lift heavy and am constantly horny as a result.

 

[jay07]

Show me the hottest chick in the world. and I'll show you a guy who's sick of f*ckin her.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Show me the hottest chick in the world. and I'll show you a guy who's sick of f*ckin her.

Very true. I think this is one area in life where people can't always make apples to apples comparisons despite everyone always trying to. Just because one couple over here still f*cks like bunnies at a certain age doesn't mean everyone else should. You really should discuss it between yourselves and try to find something that works best for both of you.

 

[logicallefty]

I've always been happy with 1-2 times a week sex with a LTR or wife. I enjoy sex a lot more when I don't do it everyday. My first wife and I tried two years to have a kid and we did it so much that it because a chore, believe it or not.