Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How often do you guys cold approach?

dap

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Simple question- how many girls do you cold approach in say, a week? I never really did this much and am just starting to. Most of the girls I've talked to in the past have been acquaintances somehow. I did a direct cold approach at the grocery store today ("this is random, but you are cute so I wanted to come meet you"), pretty much got rejected but it felt good anyway. I'd rather be a guy who talks to a cute girl when he sees her rather than someone too scared to do so.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Plutoman

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Daygame only? I'll start a conversation with 5-15, depending on how much I work, if you include the conversations that only lasted 20-30 seconds (when I realized there was no interest in speaking to me and bailed).

Include nightgame, and it's another deal entirely, I lose count then.
 

Aspiring1

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Not much, lately. Been lazy. Nailed 3 girls in one week then got pretty apathetic about the whole thing for a bit :)
 
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