"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how often do you go out to eat

bud_2005

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with your girlfriend at a nice restaurant? we do it bout once a week is that too much?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Can you afford it? Do you enjoy it?

I've had years in my life where I'd eat at nice upscale places 1-3 times a week because I could afford it and enjoyed it. Either with friends or a woman. It didn't matter.

There is no too much or too litle if you enjoy it or don't and as long as you're not doing it just to "impress" her (what I used to do in my old days).
 

WORKEROUTER

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Dude if you're a college student like me, watch how many times you go out to eat. My gf is not too bad off and dines out a lot with her family. We started going out to eat and pretty decent places AT LEAST once per week. $30/meal times 2 is $60 PER WEEK. Times 4 is $240!!!! ON FOOD.

Pretty f*cked up. Anyway, I got sick of it eventually and told her that we're not going out too much anymore. She ends up paying a lot the time now, which is cool!
 

Cod3r

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With my gf I keep it sparingly (maybe once a month) to keep her interested in it and to keep it special. When we go out to eat, its usually at very nice places probably $80 - 200$ price-range and its a whole big thing where we get dressed up and everything so she always appreciates it...

Like the other person stated, do what you want to do tho.


-Cod3r
 
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