Solomon
Master Don Juan
It's December yall National Fr month, we got bootcamps, etc etc
How many of you guys actually try?
How many of you guys actually try?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How often do you go out on the field?
- Thread starter Solomon
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
2-4, usually Thurs/Fri/Sat. Summertime it was a lot easier =\
Is it actually National FR month? haha
Is it actually National FR month? haha
edger
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I'm out there every Fri. and Sat., respectively.
I don't get out on the field much these days (1-3 times a month) because I'm in grad school and I'm always inundated with work. But I'm constantly looking to work my day game. So in a way, I guess you could say I'm always on the field.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Warrior74 said:
damn u for real?
respect!!!