"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how often do you approach and where?

ne0phyte

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outside of doing the bootcamp, how often do you guys approach? and how often do you do it at the same place? there's this borders i go to study and read at, so i plan on starting there. problem is, i don't want to seem like that guy who's overeager and trying to chat up every cute girl in the store.

during the school year i haven't had much opportunities to do day cold approach. just have been doing social circle friends of friends stuff and cold approaches at clubs. now that i'm back from vacation and have a month before school school starts again, i'm thinking about just going out there and doing day cold approaches. i would say i'm average at these things. i don't ***** out, but i still feel nervous.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oneboy21

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Bookstores are really not a good place to go and meet chicks
seriously i never met any chick at book stores, they rarely go to book stores. Coffee stores are ok.
Try Malls and out door malls.
 

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Grocery stores and libraries. I've tried public swimming pools but it's full of Moms with kids, and very few women my age. Since I'm on summer break from college, I would go out to a larger area with the intention to approach once a week(I would do 5-10 approaches then). Other times, I would just be out and get the urge to approach.
 

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Espi said:
Everywhere...no place is off limits for Espi...beautiful women are everywhere.
Do you find them even in the places you buy your cycles of steroids?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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StevieD

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Espi said:
No Stevie D1ck...I buy my steroids online...but I approached your mommy last night, though. Fvucked her wrinkled vagina while you were working at McDonald's.

:crackup:
I am sensing a lot of hostility Espi. Must be the roid rage :box:
 

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StevieD, cut the sh*t.

Espi, you know better.

oneboy21, maybe they don't go to bookstores in Kansas, but it's more of an environment thing. You'll find more attractive women in a bookstore in Seattle than you probably would in Kansas.
 

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oneboy21 said:
Bookstores are really not a good place to go and meet chicks
seriously i never met any chick at book stores, they rarely go to book stores. Coffee stores are ok.
Try Malls and out door malls.

Not true. Bookstores, at least for me, are great stomping grounds. I guess it depends on the location, etc.

Usually I just sit somewhere, and keep on the lookout for women giving out IOIs. Sometimes, a hottie will sit next to me and thats when Ill start a conversation.

I scored a couple of times using the gunwitch method and was able to fyck them the same day, from the bookstore.

Believe me, there are are single women,who are not into the bar scene, who go specifically to bookstores hoping to meet and/or get fycked by a guy.
 

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Wow, I never even considered the paradigm that some girls goto places like book stores for the purpose of meeting guys. But now that I think about it, makes sense.
 
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