"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How often do girls check you out?

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Ratisson said:
I want to know how often girls look at you when ur in a public setting. This seems to happen to me a lot. I cant figure out why they do this and i want to know if its a common thing among everone or if its just happening to me. How often does a girl walk by you and take a peek. it seems to happen to me at least a half a dozen times a day. do u think these girls are interested or do they just stare at everyone.
My situation is a lil weird but i notice younger girls lookin at me and giving me eye contact (18 - 25) but when i havent shaved and i look scruffy, grown women check me out (28 - 40). I consider myself good looking.. because alot of girls have called me sexy n hot. also pretty hot chicks have tried to open me but I was too much of an idiot to start a conversation. Anyway.. in My experience if a girl looks at you more than 2 seconds then she feels attracted... if they glance then its probably nothing.. BUT if she Keep glancing over at you then Yeah she sees eye candy But if shes shy, she wont look at you even though shes attracted to you But she might not wanna look at you if shes not attracted .....LoL Confused? :up:
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I take the train to and from work every day and I'll tell you, I am in my own little world and I rarely concern myself with the other people sharing my ride. Sometimes, sitting or standing there, I think that a woman is looking at me in the periphery of my vision. If I'm curious, I'll glance over....
This is exactly why I love this game so much and have great inner game. It's because of this realization. Go on a bus or in a train and as you enter look at all the people. Grown people sitting there in there own little world and not speaking, but when there with there friends they probably make a whole lot of noise. When you start to gaming and for the first time feel that STATE "high" you begin to realize a whole new world. It isn't even about picking up anymore its more about having fun and offering value to people by showing them fun. Every time I'm on public transportation I always try to get strangers involved and not just sitting there in a trance. Just sit there and notice if there is no group of friends there then it is totally quiet.

When your talking about girls looking at you its not just a regular look. Its more of a very curious and interested EC. Of course most people look at you but when you face them and you have that gaze together, thats the type of eye contact where she feels some sort of attraction.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
This is exactly why I love this game so much and have great inner game. It's because of this realization. Go on a bus or in a train and as you enter look at all the people. Grown people sitting there in there own little world and not speaking, but when there with there friends they probably make a whole lot of noise. When you start to gaming and for the first time feel that STATE "high" you begin to realize a whole new world. It isn't even about picking up anymore its more about having fun and offering value to people by showing them fun. Every time I'm on public transportation I always try to get strangers involved and not just sitting there in a trance. Just sit there and notice if there is no group of friends there then it is totally quiet.

When your talking about girls looking at you its not just a regular look. Its more of a very curious and interested EC. Of course most people look at you but when you face them and you have that gaze together, thats the type of eye contact where she feels some sort of attraction.
exactly, it's crazy how deeper things get involved when you actually start going through this 'realization' of the game. You mentioned an ordinary situation like on a bus, particularly crowded ones. this may be a little off topic but these places are also freaking safe havens for kino. before i even started getting into the game and knowing anything about the elements within it, i would be in a crowded bus and when some girl's ass would rub against my crotch i'd feel ashamed and embarrassed. but, now, knowing a little more about kino i can see how every little touch, added with some teasing, can really effect a woman and turn her on in a public place. so you can't say it's an ego thing how we see how a women glances at us in the same world, because like was said earlier..there's a difference between a look and a glance. just like there's a difference between a bump and a hump.
 

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All the time. It doesn't mean anything... Hell women can be doing the samething, looking to see if you are checking them out, to boost their ego.

I do notice I go through dry spells where I don't get looks, then times where women give me lots of attention in this regard, I think it has to do with my haircut and how long it is.
 
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not nearly enough. sometimes i see them take a quick glance, but there is never a sustained look. they just see what im all about and look away. ...so sad
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sustained looks are for little girls in junior high, where they stare at you all day. To be honest with you, I hardly ever see girls "rubbernecking" the way guys do. Follow a hot girl, she may as well be an alien the way guys look at her. I hardly ever see girls do this to guys.
 

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all the time, its that simple bro
 
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