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How often and how do you have to put your plate or GF in her place?

His airness

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I was just thinking that my plate of 2 years need to be put in her place on an average once a month.
Just when you think she'll learn she starts something stupid. I realized the damn testing will never stop and she'll never learn.it's like a colletaral damage to getting sex.
While i dont get flustered or anything i just find it annoying and pointless
Now instead of getting laid tomorrow i'll have to punish her and tell her off. It's an investement in the future i get it but the stupidity of women still annoys me.
 

soulforge

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I was just thinking that my plate of 2 years need to be put in her place on an average once a month.
Just when you think she'll learn she starts something stupid. I realized the damn testing will never stop and she'll never learn.it's like a colletaral damage to getting sex.
While i dont get flustered or anything i just find it annoying and pointless
Now instead of getting laid tomorrow i'll have to punish her and tell her off. It's an investement in the future i get it but the stupidity of women still annoys me.

It will never stop... If you tell her not to do something, yet she repeatedly keeps doing some fked up things, it means she doesn't care much about your opinion.

The only language she will understand is walking the F away... Unfortunately

This is all bark, and no bite
 

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It will never stop... If you tell her not to do something, yet she repeatedly keeps doing some fked up things, it means she doesn't care much about your opinion.

The only language she will understand is walking the F away... Unfortunately

This is all bark, and no bite
I could but dont want to walk away because the sex is mindblowing. I do with her as i please.
She is very submissive between these tests and to tell you the truth i dont want to be bothered by looking for a new plate and deal with other crap.
I just dont get it why they always have to stir **** up. I dont have feelings and will never make her my GF but it's still annoying.
Maybe i'll start introducing more severe punishmenet to prolong the time between these **** tests haha
 

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I could but dont want to walk away because the sex is mindblowing. I do with her as i please.
She is very submissive between these tests and to tell you the truth i dont want to be bothered by looking for a new plate and deal with other crap.
I just dont get it why they always have to stir **** up. I dont have feelings and will never make her my GF but it's still annoying.
Maybe i'll start introducing more severe punishmenet to prolong the time between these **** tests haha
Yeh but eventually her puzzy will dry up, when she realises that your the kind of guy who will tolerate all kinds of crap/disrespect for the sake of sex.

So yeh enjoy the sex now, but don't be surprised if she drops you for when she realises you are willing to trade sex for self respect.

And how exactly are you punishing her, when you are rewarding her with more sex and your time and attention.
 

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Don't tell her off or escalate negatively.
Make your stance clear calmly and use silence and distance to get the point across you disapprove of her behavior.
 

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I feel you brother. Ostensibly my hottest plate, have to tell her to F off about every other month, then we have hot monkey sex for a month and she regresses. Shame I have to do this, but it’s a proven strategy at this point.
 

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I have to get after my LTR once or twice a month. I tell her how it is, then put her on ignore for a day or two. She never admits wrongdoing or says she is sorry, but she does start being extra nice once she accepts the fact she screwed up. Deep down, she knows.

Typically we have issues when she forgets her submissive side is valued, and she oversteps her boundaries.

I prefer not to play stupid games, but they are what they are. I didn't make the rules, I just know what works.
 

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Every woman you deal with will test you every now and then. No way around it. I like tye advice about "being a rock " when a woman gets emotional. Never pick sides ,just listen calmly and return with a well thought out and clear response .

Don't argue just state facts. At the end of the day if you are not afraid to walk away you're negotiating power is way stronger.
 

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Every woman you deal with will test you every now and then. No way around it. I like tye advice about "being a rock " when a woman gets emotional. Never pick sides ,just listen calmly and return with a well thought out and clear response .

Don't argue just state facts. At the end of the day if you are not afraid to walk away you're negotiating power is way stronger.
Do you know what, I hate be that guy who is complaining about this that and the other...

But I can't help call a bich out if she gets out of hand.. I mean just the other week, the girl I'm seeing asked me to pass her something, and she didn't even say please or thank you.

I nipped that in the bud immediately.. I could have stayed quiet and not said chit, but that would only set the precident that being polite or well mannered around me isn't necessary.
 

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It makes you question why even deal with women at all.
Because society tries to shame guys who deal with escorts and/or sugar babies. Even some SoSuave members will try to shame them.

Same thing with targeting 18 year old girls. Its cool if you dont like escorts, or think 18 year old girls are "too young", but why shame other men? Why judge? I dont get it.

I would try to persuade childless men to stay away from single moms, but I wont shame them or judge them. If they are hapy, Im happy for them.
 

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Because society tries to shame guys who deal with escorts and/or sugar babies. Even some SoSuave members will try to shame them.

Same thing with targeting 18 year old girls. Its cool if you dont like escorts, or think 18 year old girls are "too young", but why shame other men? Why judge? I dont get it.

I would try to persuade childless men to stay away from single moms, but I wont shame them or judge them. If they are hapy, Im happy for them.
I would never raise another living man’s children.
 

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To some point i agree with those who say that silence and distance works...but what i've learned is that ice cold emotionless telling her off works even better.

What irks me is that it's like dealing with children, a never ending annoying cycle FFS. Their inability to learn is mind bogling , like f*** retards.and we have to deal with their bul****

So the only solution seems to be to just accept i 'll be surrounded with child like bahavior for the rest of my life
 

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I was just thinking that my plate of 2 years need to be put in her place on an average once a month.
Just when you think she'll learn she starts something stupid. I realized the damn testing will never stop and she'll never learn.it's like a colletaral damage to getting sex.
While i dont get flustered or anything i just find it annoying and pointless
Now instead of getting laid tomorrow i'll have to punish her and tell her off. It's an investement in the future i get it but the stupidity of women still annoys me.
Depends on the woman. Some women need to be put in there place more often then others. My current gf, I rarely have to put her in her place. My last gf had a mouth on her and had to be put in her place often.
 
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