I'm not going to lie to you. I am basically an intellectual nice guy, college educated, and only strive to meet highly intelligent women. (BTW, i'm also an accomplished athlete, six feet tall, muscular, of average/above in looks )
That's a problem right there. It took me a LONG time to realize that the majority of women have an obsession with the cave man. Not total losers(although they'll select one of those if they have no other choice) but PHYSICAL archetypes, dominant masculine men, social leaders, and sometimes cruel.(reckless, stupid, stupid too).
So if you're a guy who simply cannot become a dumb-ass for the sake of female pathos, try a few tips:
1. Get some attitude. It might seem ridiculous at the start but you can still be nice but not a pushover. This is a verbal habit.
a. Lower your voice
b. Lose the chick language. (an example is when deciding what do to on a date "where do you want to go"...instead say,, "we're going here, i'm in charge"
c. Use neg hits
d. Seem scarce, challenging, mysterious
2. LOOK mean(you can look mean but intelligent)
a. Muscles, muscles, muscles. Forget the two hour a day workout of the average gold's loser. You can bulk up in 15 minutes a day with a nonstop workout doing four excercies:
biceps, shoulders, pecs, delts.
b. Boots, black jeans, denim, and leather
c. A cool car: mustang, classic, or 4x4
3. Be in charge on dates. This is a learned behavior. It means you and not SHE is dominant. It will get you attention and respect.
I'll give you an example. We were about to leave for a date recently and she walked in front of me and motioned for me to get moving behind her because we were late.
I stopped IMMEDIATELY and said "we'll go when I'm ready to go" in an obvious neg hit. It froze her right then.
a. Don't be so democratic. Make a quick decision.
b. Use your hands. GUIDE her into restaurants and HOLD her back when she gets ahead of you
c. Make the waitress deal with YOU, not her.
4. Be associated with masculine stuff:
a. Cars, motorcycles, fixing stuff, starting businesses, martial arts, leather, business chapters, all show aggression
5. Be SCARCE. I'm not gonna lie to you. This is the HARDEST one to pull of. If you like someone you want to COMMIT time to them. But believe me::
you want HER TO seek you, not you seek her.
This psychology dynamic is frustrating but will work out in your favor if you know what youre doing.
a. Date other women casually, have female friends too
b. do not call her every day
c. draw back on regular periods
d. put her back down(neg hits)
6. Use confidence to your advantage.
7. Be unpredictable.
This may sound ridiculous, but i try to do something totally unexpected.
a. Take a pen and write something illegible on her hand. Whe she asks what you wrote say you wouldnt understand.
Go on a date somewhere totally unexpected without telling her before you go.
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That's a problem right there. It took me a LONG time to realize that the majority of women have an obsession with the cave man. Not total losers(although they'll select one of those if they have no other choice) but PHYSICAL archetypes, dominant masculine men, social leaders, and sometimes cruel.(reckless, stupid, stupid too).
So if you're a guy who simply cannot become a dumb-ass for the sake of female pathos, try a few tips:
1. Get some attitude. It might seem ridiculous at the start but you can still be nice but not a pushover. This is a verbal habit.
a. Lower your voice
b. Lose the chick language. (an example is when deciding what do to on a date "where do you want to go"...instead say,, "we're going here, i'm in charge"
c. Use neg hits
d. Seem scarce, challenging, mysterious
2. LOOK mean(you can look mean but intelligent)
a. Muscles, muscles, muscles. Forget the two hour a day workout of the average gold's loser. You can bulk up in 15 minutes a day with a nonstop workout doing four excercies:
biceps, shoulders, pecs, delts.
b. Boots, black jeans, denim, and leather
c. A cool car: mustang, classic, or 4x4
3. Be in charge on dates. This is a learned behavior. It means you and not SHE is dominant. It will get you attention and respect.
I'll give you an example. We were about to leave for a date recently and she walked in front of me and motioned for me to get moving behind her because we were late.
I stopped IMMEDIATELY and said "we'll go when I'm ready to go" in an obvious neg hit. It froze her right then.
a. Don't be so democratic. Make a quick decision.
b. Use your hands. GUIDE her into restaurants and HOLD her back when she gets ahead of you
c. Make the waitress deal with YOU, not her.
4. Be associated with masculine stuff:
a. Cars, motorcycles, fixing stuff, starting businesses, martial arts, leather, business chapters, all show aggression
5. Be SCARCE. I'm not gonna lie to you. This is the HARDEST one to pull of. If you like someone you want to COMMIT time to them. But believe me::
you want HER TO seek you, not you seek her.
This psychology dynamic is frustrating but will work out in your favor if you know what youre doing.
a. Date other women casually, have female friends too
b. do not call her every day
c. draw back on regular periods
d. put her back down(neg hits)
6. Use confidence to your advantage.
7. Be unpredictable.
This may sound ridiculous, but i try to do something totally unexpected.
a. Take a pen and write something illegible on her hand. Whe she asks what you wrote say you wouldnt understand.
Go on a date somewhere totally unexpected without telling her before you go.
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