"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How my looks got me dumped!
- Thread starter King Frodo
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Anyways, it's been one week since she broke up with me and i broke down and called her last night trying to talk to her and my man instincts took over and i started asking about this other guy and the conversation turned nasty. she was all like "you dont wanna know" and i kept pushing buttons and finally she was like "yeah fine, he F---ed me better than you ever did!" and i couldnt believe it. it was a punch to the gut. then i started asking about other stuff (bad move) and she was like "yeah, hes f---ing huge"
word of advice dont ask if you are in my shoes.
Charm&Style
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A.) bored the hell of out of her
B.) Let her have the ball on her side of the court
C.) Cried like a little girl
D.) Sexual prblems =X
E.) ALL OF THE ABOVE
No one in here will say looks dont matter, in fact no human being alive will say looks dont matter. But looks dont get you the girl you want. Personality is a big factor because the way you move with a girl, talk with a girl, act witha girl is what will get her wanting you. Anyways your girl is a hoe, you need to go read the djbible, and we get your point with how hung the dude is...:nervous:
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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(i am speaking out because I know you people are alluding to ME because im the resident "looks mean everything" guy)
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That's the reason you can't allow yourself to get too close to any of them. If someone better comes along then they will be gone especially at your age. By calling her and acting like a wuss you probably even ruined the chance to go **** her after he breaks up with her. If she does come running back, under no circumstances get back with her because she will just be using you to get over her heartbreak and for your emotion support, once she has gotten over him then she will be gone again breaking your heart again. If she comes back because he's turned into an ******* then I would still recommend not because it's too dangerous.
Either-way. The reason why no-one want to help you get her back is a)there is no-way, b)It's not in your best-interests.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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and frodo aka dreamx is a troll and faggot - i dont see how wat i said is wrong
King Frodo said:you idiot, im not trolling. i came here asking for help to get her back, and now i realize i dont want her back. and as for my name, i just like LOTR
Don't worry, troll is the internet equivalent of "the n word," communist, or terrorist, or jew. Any time you don't match 100% with what someone else wants you to say then you're labeled one of these things. Since we're on the internet you'll be called a troll a lot cause it makes people feel better to give you a label rather than actually think about what you say.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.