"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How my kid's turning out

Desdinova

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So I'm watching my son in the park, interacting with the others which consists of three girls and one boy. He interacts a little bit with the boy, but the girls are automatically glued to him. Why? Because he just does his own thing. The girls are telling him to do stuff and he just fvcking ignores their requests. All that did was make them pay more attention to him. One was patting his butt lol.

So anyway, one of them accidentally kicks him in the face while swinging on the monkey bars. My kid's tough though, he didn't shed a single tear. Then he gave her hell "YOU NEED TO WATCH WHAT YOU'RE DOING!"

I just sat there, watching the whole thing happen. That kid of mine isn't going to need much for dating advice. He's going to be a natural.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I love to people watch, especially kids. You can see very early on how personalities are shaped and molded before your very eyes. My dad had a very manipulative streak...I.got it but downplay it, my sis has it in spades and one older brother. I used to watch my niece when she was little play with kids and she would always end up.calling the shots...ordering lil boys around to.do her bidding. Lol to myself, Yup she got it too. Damn fun watching kids interact.
 
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