Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How much you weight and how tall are you?

Enjin 7

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I'm 6'1" @ 175 lbs. some days I look buff and cut and some days I don't. lol WEIRD.

my natural body weight is 150 sooooo... I would say Im decently happy. Its hard to keep weight on when you train muay thai for 2 hours a day.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think these stats would be more informative if people posted along with the original stats like height/weight A) Whether they have a sixpack and B) Whether they can bench their body weight.
 
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grr said:
I think these stats would be more informative if people posted along with the original stats like height/weight A) Whether they have a sixpack and B) Whether they can bench their body weight.
Who cares about a six pack? If you can bench more than your bodyweight and squat a fair amount that's pretty much a given.

However, yes I agree about the stats, they are important too. I think a new thread would be in order for that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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got weighed at the gym yesterday and was suprised - 74.8kg and not 80 weird and 181cm.
 

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154lbs, 70kg, 5"10.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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