"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How much work is necessary to have women in your life?

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Deicide

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This should be a question that raises a lot of opinions and curiosities. Just how much work is necessary to have women in your life?
I'm starting to think that you shouldn't have to dedicate a lot of time to trying to find women to be in your life. Rather, just make it a small part and do fun things along the way. That means asking women out on a regular basis and getting phone numbers, trying to set up dates, but not focusing so much on sarging. Just cold approaching sometimes and expecting nothing from it.

I'm asking this because I'm still not getting what I want from women in my life. If I had a new girl every month, I'd be fine. Since I turned my ex-gf into a FWB situation(she's not a usual FWB ie. is still in love with me, I can't flirt with other women around her, etc...), I've been getting numbers, dates, putting moves on other women and I STILL haven't been able to add any other women into my life all year. It can't be bad game. I know how to play the game very well. I do live in a rural location where most people are in relationships...but there are single women out there. I'm finding them, but they don't want me for some strange reason. I just can't believe that if I had more money or my own house that women would come knocking. It's something else that I can't put my finger on. I'll just keep hustling with my numbers game and see what happens.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rural areas can be tough. But as they say, if your game is tight then it won't matter if they have Borefriends or not. I would advise you to use more kino early on in your interactions with these ladies. If they react well, good! if they don't, dial it down a notch and then build back up to it.

Your game needs to be relentless in its escalation, otherwise you'll get stuck in the friendzone time and again.

Good luck :)
 
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Lots. Most players/seducers/ladyzmen/whatever you want to call us, are losers. Cause they spend most of their time chasing women, and not success. I'd obvcourse be the exception, but it's not cause of my money my girls want me. I know that for a fact, cause I was getting laid before I started making good money. I will admit my success with women increased when I started driving a nice car, and looking like a million bucks, but still, I was getting major tail before then.

If I were you I'd start thinking like a winner, like someone who know's success is on it's way. Meanwhile, think back to all your number-closes, dates, kiss closes, etcm reflect on them, count them as successes. It'll boost your confidence and you'll begin to notice change in your situation with women.

Good luck.
 
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