"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How much will looks effect you if you are average/slight above average looking?

Lostsoul85

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Lets say i am a 7 and i see a 9 or 10 white chick on the street and i find her sexy and want to approach her.However, a 9 or 10 is more likely to be attracted to someone who is on her level looks wise.I am black guy who is good looking but not great looking and i am into white chicks however when i see a really hot one i feel that i am at a disadvantage because a guy who is tall,blond hair blue eyes will have a greater chance.I came across an artice from Gunwitch that says you add your looks + effort and that will give you an idea of the women you will attract.For example i am a 7.
Looks 7 + 10 effort=17/2+8.5. So according to this, occasionally i will attract 8.5s if i put in 100% effort and mostly 6's and sometimes 7's.Does this sound accurate to you guys.The thing is i want to start going direct on women (Gunwitch Method)but i dont want to have a limiting belief which will make me want to approach 6's and 7's since i am only good looking but not great looking..I was thinking of wearing colored contacts and always dress nice so i can bump myself to an 8 so i can attract 7's and 8's..I am really confused right now
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know why some of you guys are hung up on your own looks. If you feel you are inferior from the start, then you will be inferior to the girl you approach. You already hand the advantage to the girl by knocking yourself down. Go up and approach her and use your game and if she isnt interested in you then she isnt worth your time. Looks do matter but if you are a cool guy that has status and can pique her interest then you already won. Some guys have to face the facts that if they dont look that good they won't be getting 8, 9, 10's and should accept that and go for women they can get. There are a lot of pick up artists that look like crap but they do get women because they have game. Or just have a lot of dough and you can get a lot of women regardless of looks lol.
 

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Starkwell said:
I don't know why some of you guys are hung up on your own looks. If you feel you are inferior from the start, then you will be inferior to the girl you approach.
Agreed. These posts are tiresome. I don't even understand the end goal here? What if I tell you (lostsoul85) that you're a 7, so you can only date 7's? Are you gonna never look at 9's again?

You can go through any suburban mall in Smalltown, USA and find any collection of male 7's with female 9's. 5's with 6's. 7's with 5's. It's not like 10's only date other 10's. It's rare to see couples of equal beauty skipping through flower fields, happily ever after.

Put away your calculator and put yourself in the best position to succeed. That's all you can do, so that's all you should worry about.
 

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the goal is that i want to start using direct game to approach any women that i find sexually attractive but i am hurt by the statistical fact that great looking men will attract the women i am interested in going after easier than me(since i am good looking but not great looking)..I mean in the back of my mind when i approach a women..i hear that voice that says im only a 7..that really hurts
 
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