"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We all know how notorious 'hot women' are for getting involved with men for their money..but what would you guys say is the actual percentage of 'hot women' that actually do this?? Is it true that most hot women out there are like this? If i were to guess, i'd say 60% of hot women out there are gold diggers. What about the rest of you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wouldn't define a woman with a pathetic personality as HOT.

You can tell who they are. They are easily avoided.
 

MrCode

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First things first: this is just a negative, somewhat woman-hating kind of mentality to have. I'm not any kind of feminist, but you need to stop seeing women as the enemy in some mythical war.

Let's say your premise is true: that a majority of "really hot women" only go for guys with money. Is there something wrong with that? I mean, if you were born with some natural ability that helped you become wealthy or get women or whatever would you make use of it? In a sense all they are doing is making use of their genetic advantage.

But I think the reality is the number of women like this is extremely low. For one thing, all women want a man who is at least moderately successful and capable of taking care of a family. This is just the genetic nature of women. But that doesn't mean that is their only requirement in a man. They also want to be sexually attracted to him, with compatible personalities, similar outlooks on life, etc.

It is ridiculous in most cases to say that a really attractive woman would stay with a man whom she detested just because he was rich. If she did, then f*ck her, she is some cold-hearted messed up b*tch whom the average guy would want nothing to do with.

Now I guess the real issue here is how can a successful man know that the women he is with is with him for him and not just for his success/money. I think if the man truly looks within himself and at the woman, he will know.
 

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Yes there is something wrong with a woman that is only attracted to guys with tons of money...she'll hook up with the rich guy and quickly leave him once she finds another guy with more money...her love was misplaced...she didn't really love the guy's looks or personality...she just loved the money...

Materialism is bad for relationships.
 

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Originally posted by MrCode
First things first: this is just a negative, somewhat woman-hating kind of mentality to have. I'm not any kind of feminist, but you need to stop seeing women as the enemy in some mythical war.

Let's say your premise is true: that a majority of "really hot women" only go for guys with money. Is there something wrong with that? I mean, if you were born with some natural ability that helped you become wealthy or get women or whatever would you make use of it? In a sense all they are doing is making use of their genetic advantage.

But I think the reality is the number of women like this is extremely low. For one thing, all women want a man who is at least moderately successful and capable of taking care of a family. This is just the genetic nature of women. But that doesn't mean that is their only requirement in a man. They also want to be sexually attracted to him, with compatible personalities, similar outlooks on life, etc.

It is ridiculous in most cases to say that a really attractive woman would stay with a man whom she detested just because he was rich. If she did, then f*ck her, she is some cold-hearted messed up b*tch whom the average guy would want nothing to do with.

Now I guess the real issue here is how can a successful man know that the women he is with is with him for him and not just for his success/money. I think if the man truly looks within himself and at the woman, he will know.
Yes, there is something wrong with a woman going for a guys money. There's something very wrong with that. If i had a natural ability that helped me become wealthy, no, absololutely not, i wouldn't make use of it in such a shallow way. The only women i despise are the shallow ****s that are preoccupied with men's bank accounts.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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