"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No Escape

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We all know how notorious 'hot women' are for getting involved with men for their money..but what would you guys say is the actual percentage of 'hot women' that actually do this?? Is it true that most hot women out there are like this? If i were to guess, i'd say 60% of hot women out there are gold diggers. What about the rest of you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NewMan

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I wouldn't define a woman with a pathetic personality as HOT.

You can tell who they are. They are easily avoided.
 

MrCode

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First things first: this is just a negative, somewhat woman-hating kind of mentality to have. I'm not any kind of feminist, but you need to stop seeing women as the enemy in some mythical war.

Let's say your premise is true: that a majority of "really hot women" only go for guys with money. Is there something wrong with that? I mean, if you were born with some natural ability that helped you become wealthy or get women or whatever would you make use of it? In a sense all they are doing is making use of their genetic advantage.

But I think the reality is the number of women like this is extremely low. For one thing, all women want a man who is at least moderately successful and capable of taking care of a family. This is just the genetic nature of women. But that doesn't mean that is their only requirement in a man. They also want to be sexually attracted to him, with compatible personalities, similar outlooks on life, etc.

It is ridiculous in most cases to say that a really attractive woman would stay with a man whom she detested just because he was rich. If she did, then f*ck her, she is some cold-hearted messed up b*tch whom the average guy would want nothing to do with.

Now I guess the real issue here is how can a successful man know that the women he is with is with him for him and not just for his success/money. I think if the man truly looks within himself and at the woman, he will know.
 

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Yes there is something wrong with a woman that is only attracted to guys with tons of money...she'll hook up with the rich guy and quickly leave him once she finds another guy with more money...her love was misplaced...she didn't really love the guy's looks or personality...she just loved the money...

Materialism is bad for relationships.
 

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Originally posted by MrCode
First things first: this is just a negative, somewhat woman-hating kind of mentality to have. I'm not any kind of feminist, but you need to stop seeing women as the enemy in some mythical war.

Let's say your premise is true: that a majority of "really hot women" only go for guys with money. Is there something wrong with that? I mean, if you were born with some natural ability that helped you become wealthy or get women or whatever would you make use of it? In a sense all they are doing is making use of their genetic advantage.

But I think the reality is the number of women like this is extremely low. For one thing, all women want a man who is at least moderately successful and capable of taking care of a family. This is just the genetic nature of women. But that doesn't mean that is their only requirement in a man. They also want to be sexually attracted to him, with compatible personalities, similar outlooks on life, etc.

It is ridiculous in most cases to say that a really attractive woman would stay with a man whom she detested just because he was rich. If she did, then f*ck her, she is some cold-hearted messed up b*tch whom the average guy would want nothing to do with.

Now I guess the real issue here is how can a successful man know that the women he is with is with him for him and not just for his success/money. I think if the man truly looks within himself and at the woman, he will know.
Yes, there is something wrong with a woman going for a guys money. There's something very wrong with that. If i had a natural ability that helped me become wealthy, no, absololutely not, i wouldn't make use of it in such a shallow way. The only women i despise are the shallow ****s that are preoccupied with men's bank accounts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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