"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How much time do you spend with your GF?

shark

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I go to the same school as my GF, so I usually run into her once or twice during the day. Usually we spend 10 minutes hanging out during school every day, and usually hang out on fri/sat nights.

IDK if this is too much, just right, or too little. How often do you see your GF's? Is it smart to start hanging out after schools and during sat/sun afternoons when everyone is doing nothing?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Distant Light

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It really depends since i like having mulitple relationships i'd usually see a girl once or twice a week. Right after a lay though, I don't want her think I just wanted to have sex and now i'm gone. So after a lay i'd probably text message her or call her 2 days after to come hangout. I personally don't really think your hanging with your gf too much. Its good that you don't really see your gf in school alot, thats something i disliked about getting girls in my school.
 
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