uly55
Don Juan
Hi guys,
My question is.... How long should I wait before making a move on a women to date her if she has just recently broken up (1 week) from her boyfirend?
Ok I recently started going to dancing lessons....to meet women and learn to dance. That was the best decision this novice Dj could have ever made. I have met so many women this way it's crazy. Women love men who can dance. Anyway.....I was at a dance party and a couple of hours into it, a women sat down beside me and introduced herself to me. We chated for about 20mins. I mentioned I had only had 2 lessons and I couldn't dance yet. She invited me to the other of the dance schools classes in which she is the assistant instructor. I said I would see her next week then.She went off to do her demo. I did try to intro her to my friends at our table, she said the usual greetings, but didn't seem to be interested in them. Which I thought was a good thing.
I find out from my dance instructor (I didn't ask about her) that she was having boyfriend troubles that night and he wouldn't come to watch her demo. Next dance class we dance with each other and chat. The next week she dosesn't come to dance classes. This week she is there, we danced and we had a good chat for about 30mins. She tells me and makes it quiet clear that she has broken up from her BF. She says he is still a big part of her life. I gather it's been a longterm relationship and probably been friends before that. He's been a big influence on her life. we have lots in common. I was able to hold a good conversation and she wasn't interested in leaving the coversation even when she was interupted by friends and the instructor.
Also she is the hottest chick that has ever had any interest in me. I admit that i'm a little intimadated by this. I remind myself she is just another women! I now want to take charge and be the Dj that is hiding within me. My persona, the way I dress and talk is becoming suave and dj like. This has been mentioned at dance classes by other women, so I don't want to make an idiot of my self, by not knowing the signals and when to move in on her.we have been having fun, i've been using ****y & funny when i can, like when she makes a mistake while dancing with her i'll slap her on the wrist telling her she is a naughty girl for forgetting the moves ect.
I have a mate that went to dance classes and met a women. He along with everyone else there thought they would start dating. It looked like a sure thing! when he asked her out she turned him down. So it's impossible to read a women.
Any advice would be great, but I need to know the rules.....when it comes to her breakup and how long I should wait to ask her out?
Thanks,
Uly
My question is.... How long should I wait before making a move on a women to date her if she has just recently broken up (1 week) from her boyfirend?
Ok I recently started going to dancing lessons....to meet women and learn to dance. That was the best decision this novice Dj could have ever made. I have met so many women this way it's crazy. Women love men who can dance. Anyway.....I was at a dance party and a couple of hours into it, a women sat down beside me and introduced herself to me. We chated for about 20mins. I mentioned I had only had 2 lessons and I couldn't dance yet. She invited me to the other of the dance schools classes in which she is the assistant instructor. I said I would see her next week then.She went off to do her demo. I did try to intro her to my friends at our table, she said the usual greetings, but didn't seem to be interested in them. Which I thought was a good thing.
I find out from my dance instructor (I didn't ask about her) that she was having boyfriend troubles that night and he wouldn't come to watch her demo. Next dance class we dance with each other and chat. The next week she dosesn't come to dance classes. This week she is there, we danced and we had a good chat for about 30mins. She tells me and makes it quiet clear that she has broken up from her BF. She says he is still a big part of her life. I gather it's been a longterm relationship and probably been friends before that. He's been a big influence on her life. we have lots in common. I was able to hold a good conversation and she wasn't interested in leaving the coversation even when she was interupted by friends and the instructor.
Also she is the hottest chick that has ever had any interest in me. I admit that i'm a little intimadated by this. I remind myself she is just another women! I now want to take charge and be the Dj that is hiding within me. My persona, the way I dress and talk is becoming suave and dj like. This has been mentioned at dance classes by other women, so I don't want to make an idiot of my self, by not knowing the signals and when to move in on her.we have been having fun, i've been using ****y & funny when i can, like when she makes a mistake while dancing with her i'll slap her on the wrist telling her she is a naughty girl for forgetting the moves ect.
I have a mate that went to dance classes and met a women. He along with everyone else there thought they would start dating. It looked like a sure thing! when he asked her out she turned him down. So it's impossible to read a women.
Any advice would be great, but I need to know the rules.....when it comes to her breakup and how long I should wait to ask her out?
Thanks,
Uly