So im pretty new to the game, but I have been pretty successful at getting phone numbers from girls. I used to think this was the hardest part, but its probably the easiest. When you get a girls number, how much should you text her? I have been texting the girls who give me their number a lot ( of course only when they respond and seem interested ). Is it a bad idea to text a girl all day? I feel like i should be saving those conversations for when I go out on a date with them. What do you guys usually do?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How much should you text a girl?
- Thread starter ChemGod
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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Texting is for setting up dates. Mainly because most guys will overtext in a way that gives away all the mystery and chase. Women need both of those in order for it to be emotional thrilling for them. That's what makes dating fun for them. If these parts are missing, then there's really no point in learning all there is about you. This means no sex or anything afterwards.ChemGod said:
That being said, texting should only be limited to setting up dates and getting together. However its a fact that every time a girl contacts you, its because she wants to see you and learn more about you. So take advantage of the fact that she's pretty much contacting you so you can ask her out.
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Funny enough, I just had a bunch of guys last week write me with similar problems - "Got a girls number, started texting her all the time, and now she's losing interest, what do I do?" Did a podcast about it too - check it out!