How much should I ignore?

[razor113]

I have this girl I'm kind of ignoring right now. I'm p**sed off at her for a few different reasons. Anyway, I still want to bang her. Right now I'm using the ignore method on her. I'm not answering her calls, texts, etc..
We e-mailed back and forth a little earlier, kept my replies short and sweet.
She's not stupid, she knows what's going on but she's asking me if I'm busy but she knows I'm just trying to ignore her.
She just replied to me " It's like trying to pull teeth with you. If you don't want to talk to me, let me know so I don't feel stupid trying to talk to you"
I haven't replied to that yet. Anyway, my question is, how long is too long (blowing her off). Will I piss her off, or will she keep on her pursuing?? What do you all think?

 

[flexion_]

" It's like trying to pull teeth with you. If you don't want to talk to me, let me know so I don't feel stupid trying to talk to you"

Well she is pretty much pissed off at this point. I think your mistake is this....

Instead of truly being busy you are just pretending to be busy and she can sense that. If you really want to raise her interest level then you need to honestly be a busy person rather than someone that has oneitis and is pretending to be busy.

 

[Kumar]

Originally posted by razor113
" It's like trying to pull teeth with you. If you don't want to talk to me, let me know so I don't feel stupid trying to talk to you"

I would reply:

You are a tough dentist, you need to sedate me first! LOL, Yeah, kinda busy with all this work (...whatever...) Hey... why would you feel stupid?

(see this way you leave it open for her to continue contact)

Cya, Kumar

 

[Legend]

well i wouldnt stay doing it to long. I did it for about 3 weeks to this girl and its like she doesnt know me anymore. I really dont care because the girl really pissed me off. So its really up too you....how mad are you? How much do you care about her? If you care a lot about her i would maybe ignore her for like a week and a half max.

 

[Legend]

i like kumars advice also.

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by flexion_


Instead of truly being busy you are just pretending to be busy and she can sense that. If you really want to raise her interest level then you need to honestly be a busy person rather than someone that has oneitis and is pretending to be busy.

Yeah because women are magical creatures and can tell when he's not busy even when he's not even talking to her.

 

[mrRuckus]

woops ignore this db error.[edited]

 

[razor113]

Originally posted by flexion_
" It's like trying to pull teeth with you. If you don't want to talk to me, let me know so I don't feel stupid trying to talk to you"

Well she is pretty much pissed off at this point. I think your mistake is this....

Instead of truly being busy you are just pretending to be busy and she can sense that. If you really want to raise her interest level then you need to honestly be a busy person rather than someone that has oneitis and is pretending to be busy.

Umm, I'm going about my life, I'm just not showing her the attention she's been used to. But I hear what you're saying. Thanks.

 

[razor113]

Originally posted by Legend
well i wouldnt stay doing it to long. I did it for about 3 weeks to this girl and its like she doesnt know me anymore. I really dont care because the girl really pissed me off. So its really up too you....how mad are you? How much do you care about her? If you care a lot about her i would maybe ignore her for like a week and a half max.

Well, I am into her but it wouldn't be the end of the world..
You think about a week and a half, huh?
What experiences have you guys had from this method? Decent success ratio??

 

[Legend]

Well if i ignore the girl to long she seems to get over it and moves on.....

I've had better success ignoring on a short term basis.

Usually when you ignore them the girls try and try and keep trying to get you to talk to them. Its kinda annoying....if you dont give in then they usually move on pretty fast.

Girls have tons of options

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by razor113
I have this girl I'm kind of ignoring right now. I'm p**sed off at her for a few different reasons. Anyway, I still want to bang her. Right now I'm using the ignore method on her. I'm not answering her calls, texts, etc..
We e-mailed back and forth a little earlier, kept my replies short and sweet.
She's not stupid, she knows what's going on but she's asking me if I'm busy but she knows I'm just trying to ignore her.
She just replied to me " It's like trying to pull teeth with you. If you don't want to talk to me, let me know so I don't feel stupid trying to talk to you"
I haven't replied to that yet. Anyway, my question is, how long is too long (blowing her off). Will I piss her off, or will she keep on her pursuing?? What do you all think?

Yes, she knows you are ignoring her and yes, she is pissed. Now you've backed yourself into a bad corner to be in. Women are reactive and most will express their displeasure with how you are treating them by treating you the same way. It's just going to become a pissing contest that leaves your frustrated.

Instead of ignoring her why don't you try telling her in a mature way WHY you are upset with her. If you do that one of two things are going to happen. If she cares about you she will talk it out with you and try to make you feel better. If she doesn't care about you OR you are being unfair regarding the reasons you are upset, she might react badly and then you'll either sort it out or you won't.

Having a talk will at least bring about a resolution, which is far better than entering into an endless pissing contest that will untimately end by having an argument about the things you COULD try to address maturely.

I say it's better to avoid all the unpleasantries and frustration and just tell her what's bugging you.

 

[Legend]

Women are reactive and most will express their displeasure with how you are treating them by treating you the same way

It doesnt get more true than this.

 

[razor113]

Originally posted by Legend
It doesnt get more true than this.

Is that right? I've heard of tons of times where you can treat them good but they treat you like sh*t.

 

[Hound_of_Love]

Originally posted by Legend
I did it for about 3 weeks to this girl and its like she doesnt know me anymore.

And I did it for 6 months once and the girl came back. There's no easy answer. It's not like cooking - 15 minutes in a hot oven...

And it IS a childish thing to do. And it DOES often make them more keen. Just goes to prove the stupidity of the human race in my opinion.

 

[Tomatoes]

She seems at the pissed off point at the moment. I think you should stop ignoring her. If you carry on you will do more damage than good. Also what reasons are you pissed off with her for? Anything you can address? Talk to her and say you have just been busy lately.

 

[Legend]

Is that right? I've heard of tons of times where you can treat them good but they treat you like sh*t.

well its true in this case....if you're being an a$$ to her, shes going to be an a$$ back. They fight fire with fire in most cases.

Treating a girl right and being treated like shyt in return shows the guy is insecure to accept that behavior. If i treat a girl nicely and she is'nt appreciative i'll show her the door.