How much should I ignore her?

[MackDaddySwole31]

So, I've been talking to this girl at my job for the past couple of weeks. I knew she was really attracted to me because of the way she always hangs around me at work, and also because of the way she drops everything when i tell her to come hangout with me. However, I had to punish her, because she has really big ego, and she kept saying little phrases like, "You don't know who you're dealing with", and "don't flatter yourself". I demand respect, and I won't allow a women to think she can talk to me like that, so I started to ignore her. At work I keep it cordial, and only talk to her if it pertains to the job. She's texted me a couple of times, the most recent of which read, "What exactly did i do to you?". I didn't respond, and that was a couple of days ago. I can tell she's really bothered by the lack of attention she's been receiving from me. She goes out of her way to be around me and make conversation. My plan is to wait until she feels like she has no chance with me, and then pick back up as if nothing was ever wrong. However, I also feel like she might just lose interest completely. Also, I don't know how to react if she acts bitter once I start talking to her again. Is my game plan strong enough? Also, are my concerns legit?

 

[logicallefty]

I think you handled this well.

I think waiting a few days is fair. Then reply to one of her texts and act like nothing happened. If she asks you again "what did I do to you". Say "oh nothing, what makes you ask?" And then play the busy card if she wants to know why you haven't responded... Then give her maybe another day or two of NC, then continue on.

You could also, as an option, throw something in there like "I try my best to respond to my friends' texts but have just been really busy." If she thinks that you only think of her as just a friend it will drive her even more crazy.

I love messing with these kinds of women, the ones with the big fat egos. I love putting them in their place. It used to be hard now it's as easy as petting my dog before I leave for work.

 

[foreverAFC]

sounds like you fcked up, she was being playful and joking with you, and you just cut her right off and took things way too seriously

"My plan is to wait until she feels like she has no chance with me, and then pick back up as if nothing was ever wrong."

good luck with that bro

 

[MackDaddySwole31]

sounds like you fcked up, she was being playful and joking with you, and you just cut her right off and took things way too seriously

"My plan is to wait until she feels like she has no chance with me, and then pick back up as if nothing was ever wrong."

good luck with that bro

Well I'd rather not have her than have her, and let her disrespect me.

 

[Konada]

Ask her out the next time she makes contact. You're gonna fvck this up if you ignore her completely. You need to remain indifferent to her rather than ignore her completely which communicates bitterness.

 

[Meisterman]

Dude she was messing with you. Why not agree and amplify and joke back with her but flip the tables? For example since she was disrespecting you (but in an obviously playful manner) you do the same to her with the same style, but even moreso.

Sounds like you're butt hurt and taking it way too personal. This could just be the girl's way of flirting. Maybe it's all she knows? I wouldn't take it as a sign of disrespect and start ignoring her. That is NOT a DJ way to handle it. I think if you get offended as easily as you do then it will never work between you two anyway because you take yourself too seriously.

 

[BrainDamage92]

Lol this is kinda like in the movie Taxi Driver "Do I know you?" "Do I know YOU?"

Just pull out the gun and shoot the ho

Anyway if she told me "You dont know who youre dealing with" Id burst out laughing and walk away, I mean how can she know what I know and dont know ****ing *****, and if that blows the chance to get some ***** then so be it... But it wont it will make her wet of course couse she be like "Wow this dude is different". Many nice girls who dont talk like that, why deal with the evil *****. Entitled *****. Youre the prize dude, not her. Know the value of your kock.

 

[old_skoolr]

I think you took a small thing and made it a BIGGGGGGGGGG thing. Ignore for weeks coz she challenged you a little bit. Come on man, deal with her then and there, dont withdraw from her. When she finds out why you did, she'll think your a little girl.

Guys Ive noticed dont have the wit to comeback at girls, so they go to this extreme. Now I may be wrong, and this might cause her to change her ways, but to me this is a **** test, and if you start dating this girl and she hurls more and more **** tests at you, sooner or later your gonna fold and shes gonna figure you out.

 

[RangerMIke]

Have you been out with her on a date? If not, then whay the fvck are you doing?

Without knowing the tone and tenor of your conversation.... how someone says something and thier body language is the most important. But just the words you typed.... damn dude.... that wasn't disrespect... sounds like a little teasing... just tease her back.

Your response makes you appear weak... you can't take a little teasing so you skulk off into a corner....

Woman ALWAYS know what is going on in your mind. They can read you like a fvcking book. Trust me, she likely knows EXACTLY why you are acting like you are, trying to pretend you are 'busy' won't work. You have to actually be busy...

My advice is yo just ask the poor girl out and see what happens.

 

[Suspens]

My advice is yo just ask the poor girl out and see what happens.

Her: "GTFO you little sensitive boy."


Well, seriously, you just humiliated her.