"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how much should I charge?

CONDE FRANCO

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hi everybody, the other day a guy that lives 5 houses from mine, ask for my services as a amateur technician (amateur because am not in the business). he found out through my brother that I know about computers. well, my dilema is that how much should I charge him? am tired of not charging a single cent, some times not even a single "thanks" I get. so what happens to his computer is a very small hard drive 7 gigs, and it is already full, that is why it is so slow and freezes all the time. I will buy a 40 gig drive for his 1200 gigahertz amd duron, 256 ram computer. I will install the windows and all the software necessary to function correctly. keep in mind that if the comp gets broken again he will be knocking at my door. 50 dollars will be ok to charge him? or less of more?:confused:

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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charge half of what a computer shop would charge.

Computer shop would charge atleast 75 bucks an hour
 

CONDE FRANCO

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wow, I could make a living as a technician. thank you bro, i will be heartless, business is business, and even though if I don't charge him, he will be knocking at my door later for a different problem, just as the others. so this time is different.
 

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Make sure you charge him for the hardware you're buying as well.
 

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I'd say $25/hour with a 1-hour minimum (30 minutes = 1 hour, an hour and a half = 2 hours) + parts. From what you've described it should take about an hour and a half or so...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CONDE FRANCO

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thank you for your replies, I just finished setting up the comp in his house. it took me more than 4 hours formating, installing windows, and installing a whole lot of software and games for her daughter. I sold the hard drive, and a printer lexmark. I charged him 120 dollars. I made a profit of 50 bucks.

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