How much sex should I be having with g/f?

[Andy_Dufresne]

Hmmmm this doesnt bode well. I have had this happen...at a young age too. Something doesn't seem right. There may be some **** from her past that you don't know about. Or you may not be her type; i.e. deep down she may really like badasses or be a total thrill seeker.... and she may only be just bowing to social conventions (i.e family, friends) to be with you. It's like a saying I heard from a client once - he detected I was being too kind to subordinates. He pulled me aside and gave me advice - "If everyone likes you...something is wrong."

In any event you are not frying her bacon. I know you don't wanna hear that but its the truth.

Before outright confront her....try to go huge neg - TOTAL reverse psychology, my friend. Don't mention sex at all. If she does...try the "nah...why would I wanna ****???" I'm soooo tired! but do it with a smirk on your face and a gleam in your eye. Then if she kinos you and gets into it keep pushing her away...even throw her off the bed a couple of times saying "no". Then while you are getting it on, just stop, pull up your trousers, grab your things and leave.

Not kidding, this **** works wonders.

That's the best thing I can come up with. Don't know if the others would agree but I think if you go direct on her it will backfire and you'll lose her.

 

[OzyBoy]

Do what satifies you. If i had sex with my girlfriend a few times a week i would be very satisfied.

 

[SamMalone]

Confronted her. Apparently her last boyfriend used her for sex and she is looking for something different now. I explained to her that this relationship wasn't just about sex but that doesn't mean we can't enjoy it. She didn't budge so I think I'm going to break it off with her.

 

[pricey rowe]

man obviously u are not satisfied! so u got the answer already! u want more! but heres the key, your asking advice on how to run your program, whuts up with that? every show got a different set and a different characters, your the director, u schedule in more sex scenes if need be. if u cant get it, then hire another producer. life is to short to be walking around with a sad ****. and on the flip side, sometimes u dont always want to hit that same hole everytime. the answer to all your questions lies in tha phrase "me 1st"...except in bed!...this is just one mans perspective

 

[Andy_Dufresne]

I think the damage is done. If you have to even discuss it at this point in your relationship, its not good. The amount of sex you have, or her even insinuating that she was "used" last time out should never be an issue.

Don't walk, run.

 

[steve38]

She is damaged goods....NEXT.