How much sex should I be having with g/f?

[SamMalone]

We've been together for two and a half months. The first month we had sex about once a week. Now it's turned into once every two weeks. We usually see each other twice a week.

I don't feel like this is enough. What do you guys think? I'm 23 btw and she is 21.

 

[Rhoto]

Twice a day at least. Any thing less is unacceptable.

But given your circumstances, you shouldn't have drop of seamen left in you those two days you guys meet.

 

[nubian-knight]

i have sex with my gf almost every time i see her
you shuld go for that too

 

[AKA FLEX]

If you're seeing her twice a week, you should be having sex with her at LEAST twice a week. Me, I'd be cranking out two or three rounds every time I saw her, if it was a mutually faithful, monogamous relationship and that's all we got to see each other.

Once every two weeks? That sounds like an old married couple. If the spark has diminished that much after just a couple months, maybe it's time to shop for a new girlfriend.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Twice a day at least. Any thing less is unacceptable.

But given your circumstances, you shouldn't have drop of seamen left in you those two days you guys meet.

that is correct good Sir.

 

[Master Bates]

If you're seeing her twice a week, you should be having sex with her at LEAST twice a week.

At least? If you can have sex with your girlfriend more than twice a week if you only see her twice a week, you're some sort of sorcerer.

 

[SmoothTalker]

... He means you can have sex more than once per get together.

 

[AKA FLEX]

At least? If you can have sex with your girlfriend more than twice a week if you only see her twice a week, you're some sort of sorcerer.

Did you bother to read the next sentence in my post?

 

[3countriesPlan]

you should get the amount of sex that leaves you satisfied. If she can't give it to you find another or break up with her and get a new girlfriend.

 

[young_gun]

I've been with my girlfriend for going on 9 months now, and we still have sex every time we get together, sometimes 2 or 3 times. You're not getting nearly enough.

 

[jafyk]

Master Bates, lol. nice name. What's Joe the homphobe doing on this site? This is not a site for guys looking to score with other guys, Joe! lol

 

[PRMoon]

You two should be having sex as much as you both agree to do so. If you want to have sex with her a few times a day, that's fine. If she wants to jump you every time she see's you, that's fine as well. The point is to express your feelings towards one another without question. I've never been in a relationship where I didn't express how I was feeling about the whole thing unless I wanted to hide something, was semi scared, or didn't give two sh*ts about the relationship to begin with. You want to have few or no problems talking about and adjusting the sexual part of your relationship if you have emotions of somekind for one another.

 

[Tex]

AS MUCH AS YOU FING WANT TO!!!...if bi-weekly is cool with you then do it. I can tell you if I had a steady chick I'd be after it all the time...but then again I'm a single Ahole and loving it.

 

[Jitterbug]

As much as you need to be sexually satisfied.

If that's not being met, talk to her about it. Meet her more often.

My opinion of your current situation is that you're heading into old married couple territory. Once every two weeks? Geezus. Might as well be single. At least you get to go on more dates with different women and if you're any good, you'll score more often than just once every 2 weeks.

 

[L B]

It will Fluctuate from time to time. At the very least, settle for once a week.

 

[SamMalone]

I'm going to tell her today I need more or we are done. I doubt it will turn into a long term thing with this girl anyways so I have nothing to lose. I could settle for once a week.

 

[r0cky]

So you're gonna walk up to her and tell her "hey bitc.h i need more punani in my life"?
No my friend, thats not how it works.
She will have sex with you as many times as you can arouse her. If she says no, that means you haven't aroused her enough so keep going at it.
My guess is that she only wants to do it once every 2 weeks becuase thats the longest she can go without doing it. You're having sex pretty much on her terms.
So you do what you gotta do!

 

[Andy_Dufresne]

I wouldn't toss it out just yet. However you might be boring her to the point where she is going to LJBF you first.

Before you dump her, try turning your game up a notch. Always wear hot clothes, keep your car clean when you go out, nice smelling cologne.

Jazz it up too. Think ice cubes, chocolate syrup, bandannas, doing it in crazy locations. Take her lingerie shopping. Role play.

Be creative.

 

[SamMalone]

I always dress well and smell nice around her. I've brought the whipped cream up and **** and she just says "we'll do it later" but later she is "too tired". It is almost like she is ****-teasing me these last few weeks so I feel talking about it with her is the only option. I'm not going to be mad about it I'm just going to tell her.

 

[young_gun]

I wouldn't throw out any ultimatums. Nothing really gets accomplished when you say "you do this or I'm breaking up with you" unless it's something serious, like you have some suspicion she is cheating on you or something. But not getting enough sex isn't really a reason to throw out any irrational ultimatums.

You need to communicate this to her, though. You have desires as a man, and you aren't ashamed of them. If you need more sex in this relationship, you need to let her know that. If you're 23 and she's 21, you both should have a huge sexual appetite.