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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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How much sex is enough for your per week

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Off course you can never have too much

BUt what is acceptable to you when

A. Single

B. Relationship


For me with a girl I want sex every time we are together. Multiple times. IS this too much to ask?

SIngle. Well it depends what you can get?

However, I am not sociable I am thinking offf only using hookers. If so I would have sex once every 2 weeks perhaps? Thats all I can afford. for 30-60mins?

This is no way enough sex however being single and not pursuing girls gets me 0 sex.
 

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Your question is confusing why does being single or in a relationship matter? I'd say from past experience 4x every 2 weeks was usually good enough for me.
 

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During school, I had a FB and I would meet up with her like every other week something like that. But we would have sex like 3 or 4 times in one night/next morning.

Other than that I would get a ONS here and there.

I'm not one of those single guys that has like 12 booty calls on his phone, but hey I'm working on that.

Then again I don't have the strongest libido ever, I'm pretty ok with what I get. I can probably contribute this to the lexapro I'm taking for anxiety which probably kills some of my libido.
 
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Voice said:
During school, I had a FB and I would meet up with her like every other week something like that. But we would have sex like 3 or 4 times in one night/next morning.

Other than that I would get a ONS here and there.

I'm not one of those single guys that has like 12 booty calls on his phone, but hey I'm working on that.

Then again I don't have the strongest libido ever, I'm pretty ok with what I get. I can probably contribute this to the lexapro I'm taking for anxiety which probably kills some of my libido.

Well the thing is I jerk off like 2-5x per day and I watch porn every day sometimes for hours and multiple times.

If I could replace my porn and jerking off with sex Id be having sex at least 2x per day 7 days per week lol

I really could!!!! Im always working out so I have a high sex drive though.

I guess sex 1 day per week I could handle even once every 2 weeks at worst BUT anymore would be pretty bad as it is now lol
 

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Wow, that's a lot of jerking off mate don't you have something better to do? lol.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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i could have sex once or twice every day. but i only see my gf once/twice a week, on weekends usually. so if she comes over we will go at it twice in the one night. if she stays over, we do it again, maybe twice again in the morning. pretty much twice in one night can actually satisfy me for a couple/few days as my nuts and dik are sore. we go at it pretty hard :p must be all that tension from waiting a week.
 
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jafyk said:
Wow, that's a lot of jerking off mate don't you have something better to do? lol.
Well only as like now when Im unemployed lol.

I mean when Ive had sex im like well I could go a few more days without it or w aweek no problem.

BUt I seem to want to masturbate daily multiple times. I think I have high sex drive form weightliftng though
 

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When I have a girlfriend, we have sex 1-3 times a day, every day. Same as when I'm single, but when I'm single, I don't see women as often.

I was seeing a girl recently. She was energetic and athletic (dancer), so we actually did it about 4-5 times a day... about 2-3 hours of sex per day. She's currently out of the country, so the number has dropped off.
 
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Lol! Surely this must be a major impediment on you actually living your life. How do you find to do anything else?

well it sonly when Im unemployed. If Im in the house all day and dont get up til 2-4pm its quite easy,

I can go to bed at 12am and just wtach th epornos for 1-5hours before I go to sleep
 

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
Well the thing is I jerk off like 2-5x per day and I watch porn every day sometimes for hours and multiple times.

If I could replace my porn and jerking off with sex Id be having sex at least 2x per day 7 days per week lol
Ha ha that's what you think. Just wait till you get a girlfriend and you'll find out that it ain't as easy as you think :D

Me personally after the first time i had secks with a woman I try to make it a habit to have secks w her everytime we meet.

But since I usually meet a woman once a week on a saturday most of the time there's my answer. Once a week is enough for me.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ha ha that's what you think. Just wait till you get a girlfriend and you'll find out that it ain't as easy as you think :D
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huh?

You mean gf wont want sex everyday?
 

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3 times a week is fine for me

4 is so so and anything over that is too much and no im not a machine
 
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